Everyone goes through tough times in life.
Some people are really good at hiding it and some people love talking about it.
The people that tend to hide it most likely come out bitter and mean... they want to seem so perfect so they act so hard to make it seem like they're perfect and nothings wrong with them but they're just to afraid to talk about it with someone... which is not healthy at all.
The people that do talk about it to others, they could be feeding the wrong ears. A lot of people in the world don't really care about your problems, they just want to know what's happening... curiosity and nosey.
But those people will notice down the road when something similar happens to them and they will go back to the person that was telling them their problems, and that's how they will be able to relate and emotionally support each other.
Don't get me wrong, whenever I see accidents on the road, I'm super nosey. I always want to know; what happened? is anyone hurt? how did it happen? what's the result going to be?
But remember, it's always good to talk to someone, never bottle it up and never beat around the bush about how you really feel... just spill all the beans. When you tell it how it really is, you'll get the most honest advice.