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[holyarchistud]

Christmas at home is always a difficult time for me. My parents are very intense and extroverted people, and living in another city has made me lost the habit of their pace. I have managed to achieve peace and slow down in my life, but when I return to my family home, everything is three times faster and three times louder. That's why this year I'm sitting in a rocking chair and crocheting, it gives me some sense of security.

Merry Christmas everyone!

[lattesandlearning]

Thank you to the amazing @holyarchistud for tagging me! 🌟 Edit: Thank you to the lovely @softly-studying for tagging me as well! 💕

7 Comfort Films

I’m just going to name 7 films that I could watch a million times and always enjoy.

La La Land (2016)

Antman (2015)

The Adventures of Sharkboy and LavaGirl (2005)

Any of the Halloweentown movies- except for Return To Halloweentown because they had the audacity to replace Kimberly J. Brown and that’s outrageous. (1998-2004)

Carrie (1976)

Alice Through the Looking Glass (2016)

The Chronicles of Narnia: The Lion, The Witch and the Wardrobe (2005)

Bonus: Pride and Prejudice (2005)

I’m going to tag @myhoneststudyblr because I have a feeling that Sophie will have some interesting films to share! 💕

[holyarchistud]

I have to plan my days in more detail because sometimes I get lost. I have to specify exactly what I have to do, otherwise I don't know when to finish or I finish after the simplest form. Sometimes I avoid the most difficult tasks of the day, e.g. I postpone repairing the language change button on the website I am writing from one day to the next. I know I have to do it, but I avoid it like the plague. I am afraid of stopping at some point and not having the skills to solve this problem. It frustrates me, but at the same time I know that you learn the fastest with practice, so why do I avoid it so much? I need to ask myself questions like this more often.

[holyarchistud]

31|oct|2024

Enjoying autumn

[holyarchistud]

🌿 One Week Break Before the Grind Starts Again! 🌿

Hey!

I’m currently on a one-week break from work, and I’m taking full advantage of it to recharge before diving back into the grind. It’s so important to slow down and give yourself some rest—something I’m trying to get better at!

During this week, I’ve been reading "Think Like a Monk" by Jay Shetty, and it’s been so inspiring! It’s all about applying the wisdom of monks to modern life, and I thought I’d share some key takeaways that have really resonated with me so far:

1. Train Your Mind: Jay talks about how we can shape our thoughts through consistent practice. Just like monks meditate, we can train our minds to focus on what matters, quiet negative thoughts, and cultivate gratitude.

2. Let Go of Expectations: A big lesson in the book is to let go of society’s or other people’s expectations. The key is to live according to your values and what fulfills you, rather than chasing things to impress others.

3. Purpose Over Passion: Jay emphasizes that finding purpose in what you do is more sustainable than relying solely on passion, which can come and go. Purpose gives you clarity and motivation to keep going even when things get tough.

4. Rituals and Routines: Monks are big on routines, and Jay encourages readers to create morning and evening routines to ground themselves. It’s all about creating a space for mindfulness and reflection, even if it's just for a few minutes.

5. Gratitude and Service: One of the most beautiful concepts in the book is the idea of finding joy through service to others. Gratitude and kindness not only make a difference in other people’s lives but also boost your own sense of happiness and fulfillment.

I’m planning to incorporate a few of these ideas into my daily life when I get back to work next week—especially the routines part. I feel like that’s going to help me stay grounded during the busy season ahead.

Stay focused and take care of yourselves! ✨

[holyarchistud]

10|nov|2024

and how can you not love Norway?

[holyarchistud]

22|oct|2024

Does anyone else feel like they’re always preparing, but never doing? Like, I know what skills I want to develop. I know what I should be working on. But instead of actually starting, I find myself endlessly scrolling through tutorials and watching “how to” videos, convincing myself that I’m learning — that I’m getting ready.

Except... I never actually feel ready.

And the longer I wait, the harder it gets to just start.

It’s like self-sabotage disguised as “research.” I keep telling myself, “I’m not prepared yet,” or “I need to learn this one more thing,” when in reality, it’s just fear — fear of failing, of not being perfect, of stepping outside of the comfort zone of passive learning.

But here's the truth I’m trying to accept: No amount of watching videos is going to prepare me for the work I want to do. The only way to get better is to actually do it. Even if it’s messy. Even if it’s far from perfect.

I don’t have to be ready. I just have to start.

[holyarchistud]

16|oct|2024

(( It's like anti-studyblr post, so be careful! ))

I would love to write here now how great my return to productivity, fulfilling my duties and planning is going. but it's not totally like that. I haven't had such a strong mental encounter with a wall in a long time. so many things are overwhelming me. I went for a walk and I'm trying to get myself back together. At least autumn is kind to me.