ok long rant incoming-
I’ve had multiple people gatekeeping me because I have ONE relationship with a dude, though my attraction is 99.99% focused on women. If you're 99.999% attracted to women, mathematically speaking you're a lesbian. Most people just round that up to 100%, but there's not a whole lot of difference between the two. Some people in this world get super hung up on who is a valid lesbian or not but you really shouldn't worry about it that much, nobody in the real world cares if you have a gold star- Homoflexible means that you are attracted to your same gender collectively, and are not attracted to your opposite gender collectively, but you may be attracted to a very specific, individual person of the opposite gender. So, it's not the same as bi, because you are only attracted to one collective gender, but a homoflexible / heteroflexible person could identify as bi if they wanted to. For example, a homoflexible woman may be attracted to one or two specific guys, but she is not attracted to "men" as a whole or "men" in general, just those two guys, so she may not feel bisexual. So, most homoflexible people call themselves gay most of the time, and most heteroflexible people call themselves straight most of the time. It's like being gay/straight most of the time, but with an exception or two for specific people. I'm just kinda sick of people saying i'm not a lesbian when clearly i am… too many toxic lesbians out there man.
