#hope helps

[really-just-a-fox]

are u a fox kin? or a ryland kin? cause this is confuse my head

I am simple rp account playing as fox version of Father Savior Grace , but I do relate a lot to Ryland (I know it not same but yeah)

feel need to add smile , kinda feel stupid at this :]

[stranger-nightmare]

i’m a virgin and like I have always been told it hurts for the first time, and I like need some big sister advice if ever I do have it

Brace yourself bc this is gonna get a bit tmi as I try to give you the best advice that I can

First and foremost tho, virginity is a social construct anyway, it can refer to the physical aspect of not having your hymen in tact anymore, which can happen even without you having had sex before; or it can refer to sleeping with another person, it’s all up to you how you choose to define it babe🖤🥰

Okay and so my darling confession time here is that I am also technically a virgin myself in the sense that I haven’t slept with another human being yet

However, I am not a virgin in the sense that I’ve never had something inserted into my vagina, I actually did just manage to insert my biggest dildo yet just the other day, which is the size of an average penis so I can give you advice you from that experience bc it’s kinda the same deal, just not with a real person?

Okay so to be perfectly honest for me it did hurt, it took me a long time of opening myself up with smaller toys first before I was able to insert the dildo, and it did take a lot of lube too, lube is always super important in almost all sexual scenarios

Anyways yeah for me personally it hurt quite a bit and I honestly couldn’t push it all the way inside me at first; it took me several attempts / sessions before I was able to fully insert this dildo, but thankfully that’s the luxury of dealing with a dildo rather than a real human being! It hurt enough for me to stop and reevaluate what I need to do / how to go about it but eventually once I opened myself up slowly enough I was able to get it in and actually enjoy it, even if it did still hurt a lil bit, it wasn’t anything too terrible

However I’ve also had friends who said they didn’t feel any pain at all when they lost their virginities, every one and every body is different and you likely won’t know how your body will react until you get down to it

The best pieces of advice I can give is to make sure you’re really in the mood first, so plenty of making out and foreplay first, make sure you’re nice and wet and horny as hell, this can even include opening yourself up a bit with fingers or smaller toys first! Secondly, as I mentioned, use plenty of lube, and I do mean plenty! Thirdly, do your best to relax, try not to tense your body, just lie back and slowly let yourself be filled up! Perhaps most importantly is to just go slow and take your time, set your own pace, communicate with your partner and let them know how you’re feeling and what you’d like them to do, you and your own comfort should be your no. 1 priority, if you need to stop, then stop, do whatever you feel best with

Stop immediately if it hurts too much though or you can’t physically push it in, some slight pain and discomfort is normal but if it really hurts and you’re really having to force it in there then please just stop immediately and perhaps try again another time, or again try with something a lil bit smaller first

Sorry if this is kinda tmi but I feel like giving you my real life experience is the best way that I can keep honest and open with you guys and how I can give the best advice too!

I hope this helps in some way? Please know I’m always here for any advice and questions you guys may have🥰😘🖤💫

- Hope🐝

[stranger-nightmare]

I have pcos so it’s one of the main reasons that I’m losing my hair, I had a cyst taken out of my ovary last December and it’s taken a toll on me aswell so hopefully I can figure out the hair thing from my doctor. It doesn’t help that I got sick for a month and didn’t eat anything except for peaches the whole time because I threw up everyday so I don’t have a lot of nutrients in my body but I hope I can just get over the eating disorder it brought back up.

Sorry that was alot I literally have no friends and no one to talk to

again please don’t apologise it’s absolutely okay!

I have pcos too which I believe was a contributing factor to when I was dealing with quite bad hair loss so I feel you!

but yeah it might just be another hormonal thing after you’ve had the cyst remove, definitely I recommend speaking to your doctor and hopefully you can work out the cause and work out a solution together! but yeah I imagine it didn’t help that you were unwell for a while, I really hope you’re feeling better now and that you can move forward with a treatment plan that works and is suitable for you

I’m wishing you all the best my darling <33

- hope

[stranger-nightmare]

you may have answered this already and if you did im sorry! but i was just wondering if you had any advice for someone who wants to start writing fanfic on tumblr but is nervous/doesn't know where to start. love your stuff btw! you're a huge inspiration!

my go to advice with writing is honestly to just go for it! like genuinely just write down what pops into your head as it comes to you! don’t worry if it doesn’t make sense or isn’t coherent or doesn’t sound great or whatever, you can edit and change that later. just put your initial focus into putting your idea onto the page

once you’ve written the basic bones of your fic then you can go back and flesh it out a bit more and make it sound a bit better! I promise no one on tumblr is looking for award winning writing, so honestly just write what you wanna write and post it if you comfortable sharing!

here I’ve got a few tips on writing smut in particular if that’s of any interest to you!

I hope this is of some help to you my love, and sorry for the slight delay in answering this <33

-hope

[stranger-nightmare]

im thinking of getting my nipples pierced as a bday gift to myself, is there anything you wish you knew beforehand?

omgggg yes bestie do it!! <33

um so personally there was nothing I wish I knew beforehand bc I’d already had many piercings done in the past so I already knew what to expect! honestly it’s not much different from any other piercing I've had done before

my basic advice is make sure you eat a lil something beforehand if you can, have some water on you or ask for some when you get to the piercing studio, take a deep breath in as they do the piercing and literally just focus on your breathing the whole time! also don’t wear a bra that day and wear a loose and light shirt, you don’t want to have your nipples pierced and then have to put a really tight shirt back on that’s gonna rub against them!

I hope this helps a lil bit! again just remember that I am not a professional, this is just from my personal experience, please make sure to get proper aftercare instruction from your actual piercing artist! <33

I hope you love them if you do get them done, and happy birthday for whenever it is!

-hope

[stranger-nightmare]

Dude, I'm trying to create fictions, but nothing comes out of my fucking head. Any advice?

personally my main source of inspiration usually comes from selfish scenarios that I’d like to imagine with certain characters tbh! so just think about what you’d like to do with the characters or what you’d like to do within a certain fictional realm and go from there!

or you can try using prompt lists and see if that helps inspire you? there’s absolutely loads here on tumblr if you just do a lil search for them! have a read through of some those and see if that sparks anything!

I hope this helps <33

- hope

[stranger-nightmare]

this is so random but i was wondering how do you get this small text?

example from your blog:

i see everyone use it really want to use it as well!!

Hi babe!!

So when you make a post you need to highlight the text that you want to make small and it one of the options that pops up should look like this <s> and that will make the writing smaller!

Hope this helps🖤💫🥰

- Hope🐝