I met Ama-la in 2007 when I came to Nepal for the first time. I was excited to live with a host family but was very nervous. My family was also very nervous and shy - and it didn’t help that my host parents don’t speak English!
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It took a while to bond but it was worth it! It was great to have a place to come home to and to have a family to decompress with at the end of the day.
And it was a relief for my mother, too. Across the world, she knew I was in a home filled with love and friendship. If I was sick, I had someone to care for me. If I was upset, I had a mother to comfort me. Nothing could mean more.
And we paid the love back - when my siblings came over to the US, Mom opened her arms and heart to them as well.
My mother and I went to see Ama-la this weekend. It was their first time meeting each other.
While there are some cross-cultural and language barriers, their bond was unshakable.
If you are thinking about traveling or staying with a host family and have questions, let me know! It’s not always easy but it’s worth it!