Personal HOTD rant under the cut
When I said two years ago that S2 had written Aemond as a cheap, badly executed Homelander knockoff (mommy kink, cuddling, milk imagery, sociopathic flattening, megalomaniac fanboy speeches) I was told that no, actually, that was "complexity".
That the scene with Sylvi was supposed to be unsettling. That it wasn't meant to please the audience. That maybe it wasn't perfectly executed, sure, but it "made sense" because trauma, regression, shame, vulnerability, etcetera etcetera...
The point is, I was never criticizing it for being disturbing. I was criticizing it for being crude, derivative, and tonally wrong.
Aemond wasn't written that way to be psychologically profound. He was written that way to be grotesque. The problem is that, unlike the model he so clearly seems to be echoing (Homelander) it doesn't work. Because when you take those codes out of their original context and slap them onto a different character in a different story, without any real construction behind it, what you get isn't complexity. It's just a worse copy.
And no, going back after the fact to find psychological, anthropological, or "scientific" explanations for it doesn't help. Saying "trauma" is not enough to make a narrative choice profound. Slapping sophisticated words onto a crude scene does not magically turn it into characterization.
The same logic is there in Blood & Cheese: an atrocity, the murder of a child, written with this almost "oh my god, are they going to make it?" kind of suspense. And then immediately after, Helaena runs to Alicent and finds her in bed with Cole, in a scene that feels like it belongs in a farce.
That is the kind of writing I'm talking about. Not tragedy. Not complexity. Not intelligent discomfort. Just misplaced grotesque.
And if we're going to use S1 as proof only when it's convenient, then fine, let's actually talk about S1. Because S2 contradicts entire scenes, dialogues, and dynamics that the show itself had already built. I'm not even talking about the book or the lore here. I'm talking about a show that cannot even remember itself.
So no, it wasn't all "already there". You don't get to take one detail from S1, rewrite it retroactively, and pretend it was foreshadowing all along.
What we saw was not complexity. It was shock value dressed up as psychology.
And if "not understanding" means refusing to accept that a crude narrative choice becomes deep just because someone slaps a few elegant words on top of it, then yes: I don't understand. And honestly, I'm glad I don't.
At this point, keep this garbage. S3 isn't coming out of nowhere, it is the natural consequence of everything this fandom has spent two years normalizing, defending, and calling "complexity".