#house overlay synastry

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Circe's Synastry Observation

Note: These are just my own observations, ideas, thoughts and theories. This is just for entertainment purposes. Also, please be respectful of my observations! It is perfectly understandable to not resonate with some of my personal observations but please do not leave any disrespectful comments! Lastly, please don’t plagiarize any of my works! Without further ado, enjoy!

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⋆。·˚ʚ💗ɞ˚‧。⋆ VENUS IN 1ST

✿ I love when I have Venus in 1st house with someone because they always show their adoration towards you. I had this with a friend and she made me feel sooo loved 🫶🏻🥹

⋆。·˚ʚ💗ɞ˚‧。⋆ MARS CONJUNCT URANUS

✿ Mars conjunct Uranus could mean that Mars is the active pursuer and Mars could be the one pursuing Uranus. The relationship could have started thanks to a dating app/online.

⋆。·˚ʚ💗ɞ˚‧。⋆ SUN CONJUNCT LILITH

✿ Sun conjunct Lilith causes Lilith's family members to be cautious about the Sun person. (Not sure why but I found this in multiple synastry charts and Lilith are both men)

⋆。·˚ʚ💗ɞ˚‧。⋆ PLUTO CONJUNCT MOON

✿ Pluto conjunct moon is NOT FOR THE WEAK I REPEAT. Both individuals act very obsessive over one another but also differently. Moon clings onto Pluto because of all the emotion they feel when they are with Pluto. Pluto holds onto Moon because of the control they have over Moon.

✿ In this Synastry aspect, the Moon person can still feel very attached to Pluto even after years of break-up. They will try to recreate the same experience/memories that they had with Pluto with someone else. They may be attracted to people who remind them of Pluto.

⋆。·˚ʚ💗ɞ˚‧。⋆ VENUS IN 9TH

✿ Venus in 9th house synastry can indicate that both can come from different cultures and ethnic backgrounds. It can also indicate the two meeting in college. They can try to explore different cultures together and they can also love traveling together. Sometimes during the relationship they may have to do long-distance.

⋆。·˚ʚ💗ɞ˚‧。⋆ JUNO IN 1ST

✿ Juno in 1st could indicate that both parties are loyal to each other and there is mutual attraction between the two. I see a lot of posts talking about how Juno may view house person as the ideal partner but I think the physical attraction goes both ways as in they both view the other as someone who embodies what they look for long term.

⋆。·˚ʚ💗ɞ˚‧。⋆ JUNO IN 3RD

✿ If you have juno in 3rd house with a friend be prepared to talk a lottt about commitment, ideal traits of a partner, marriage, love, children etc 🥰.

⋆。·˚ʚ💗ɞ˚‧。⋆ VENUS SQUARE MARS

✿ Venus square mars could indicate mars person feeling turned off by venus persons mannerisms (vice versa).

⋆。·˚ʚ💗ɞ˚‧。⋆ MERCURY IN 6TH

✿ Mercury in 6th house synastry could indicate the two talking on a daily basis. I have this with my sister and even when we are far apart (physically) from one another we still manage to communicate everyday <3

⋆。·˚ʚ💗ɞ˚‧。⋆ MARS IN 1ST/MARS CONJUNCT SUN

✿ People who have mars in your 1st house or mars conjuncting your sun always seems to approach you first? But for some reason, those who are attracted to men may naturally gravitate towards men with mars in their 1st house.

✿ This can also indicate mars person catching feelings for sun person first or finding the Sun "ideal" in some way especially if mars is a woman. If the woman is mars in sun conjunct mars synastry it can make the woman the chaser in the relationship...i prefer it the other way around where the man is mars and the woman is sun.

✿ I feel like, in general, people who have placements in your 1st house tend to naturally gravitate towards you and vice versa.

⋆。·˚ʚ💗ɞ˚‧。⋆ MARS CONJUNCT NN

✿ Mars conjunct NN can indicate that the two constantly motivate each other to go after their goals. Mars can provide drive for NN (vice versa) to keep pushing forward. Expect lots of motivation from each other. The house that it's in can indicate the themes that they push each other on. Ex: If it sits on the 2nd house it can indicate mars motivating NN through their self-esteem and the two pushing each other towards financial opportunities.

⋆。·˚ʚ💗ɞ˚‧。⋆ MARS IN 11TH

✿ Mars in the 11th house can indicate that Mars person can cause chaos or competition within the house person's friend circle or community.

⋆。·˚ʚ💗ɞ˚‧。⋆ MERCURY-MOON

✿ if you have mercury-moon with someone, you can find yourself dreaming of them often.

⋆。·˚ʚ💗ɞ˚‧。⋆ IN GENERAL

✿ 2nd house synastry and physical touch is so real?? I have this with multiple people (me as house) and they're always so touchy with me 😭. For people I have 2nd house synastry with we both seem to always greet each other with hugs?

✿ Idk if its just my life and my inner circle, but it seems like individuals with Aries placements tend to attract more Aries placements into their lives.

✿ 8th house/pluto synastry the type to have each others location on at all time and constantly check where the other is. I usually end up sharing my location with friends or family members that I have 8th house synastry with 🤔

✿ People who I have 8th house synastry with tend to be more open-minded when I bring up astrology or other occult knowledge 🥹🫶🏻.

✿ 6th house synastry requires that both will put in the efforts to maintain the connection. I just checked my synastry chart with a friend and we have mercury in 6th house and we would have random chit-chats with each other throughout winter break to check up on each other.

✿ Also, 6th house synastry is the type of synastry where the two may take on each other's habit because they hang out with each other so often. For example, if one person has a habit of brushing their hands through their hair the other may pick up on that and do the same or if one person has a habit of talking with their hands the other person may pick up on that habit too.

✿ Whereas, 3rd house synastry could be the type where one person starts the mimicking how the other person talk (accents, certain vocabs/slangs)

✿ If you have both 3rd and 6th house synastry together it can indicate that others may mistake you as twins or siblings or maybe just view you both as inseparable (3rd house, house of siblings and communication + 6th house, house of routines and co-workers so it can indicate linking you both together)

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8th House Moon Synastry Overlays

Seeing as this is one of my most popular posts to this day, I'm making this its own post, separate from the ask, because I want to turn it into its own series. I'm still in an incredibly difficult spot in life, having just moved across states for the second time in two years, and moved overall for the third time in two years. My job is finally getting normal, but I recently had health issues and seem to be getting sick again. Eventually hoping to stabilize enough to come back to this and finish my 10th House Nakshatra Lord series as well. Thanks for your patience and for continuing to check in!

What is the significance of a synastry house overlay?

In a natal chart, you can’t isolate a house’s impact on a planet from the planet’s impact on a house. That doesn’t make sense. For example, a natal 8th house moon leads to an individual whose emotional interior is most evoked and stirred by themes like death and intimacy, and whose relationship to themes like death and intimacy is greatly impacted by their feelings and intuition. It’s mutual.

The same is true of synastry overlays. No matter what, both people will be affected by synastry placements. What varies is to what effect, if they notice, and if they accept it.

In my experience, everything else being equal, here’s how I usually see things playing out with overlay synastry:

The house person provides the space for the planet person to operate within. Think about when someone new joins the office, or you invite a guest over to your house. The change is immediate and impactful. You notice right away and have to adjust accordingly. Of course, that doesn’t mean the effects can’t shift. If someone barges into your home uninvited, you’ll start out pretty defensive, but once they settle in, you may appreciate their presence. The opposite, that maybe you invite them in, eager to host for them, but then their actual presence ends up grating on your nerves, can also be true.

The planet person is the newcomer, entering the new environment. To get a grasp on what that means, think about how it works when you visit somewhere new. The new place could be as spectacular or strange or intense as you ever imagined, but it still requires you actively exploring it and interacting with it, for it to affect you. You might be at Disneyland, but loitering by the entrance will still make for a very different experience then venturing in, getting on rides, and looking for stuff to do. Only once you do can you decide if you like it there or not.

The house person is immediately affected by the planet person as characterized by the specific planet and house in question, but it’s the planet person’s prerogative to inhabit the house person’s world and allow themselves to be affected by it.

What is the significance one's moon overlaying the other's 8th house?

Above is all true regardless of what overlay placement we’re talking about, but here’s what it potentially means for moon in the 8th house specifically:

Both the moon and the 8th house can signify intuition, vulnerability, and private affairs. These are the themes empowered with this overlay.

The 8th house person will immediately feel a magnetic pull from (whether that’s being attracted to or repulsed by) the sentimentality, intuition, and past of the moon person.

Whether it’s attraction or repulsion depends on the house person’s personal relationship with 8th house and Pluto/Mars/Scorpio themes - you can check their natal chart for clarity on that if you aren’t sure.

The moon person may feel too intimidated to immediately make their interior world accessible to the house person, because the 8th house is a dark place and it often takes time for people to feel secure enough to risk engaging with it.

Whether this is the case depends on the moon person’s personal relationship with 8th house and Pluto/Mars/Scorpio themes - with benefic placements and aspects, this likely won’t be an issue.

The 8th house person may not react to withholding of intimacy well.

They may reject the moon person’s emotions entirely, preferring to live under the impression that the moon person has no substantial emotions to share - a fear driven reaction that devalues the other’s depth.

Or they may ignore boundaries, push for access to the moon person’s emotions - an entitled reaction that defies the other’s power. This can lead into obsession from the house person over the moon person.

If the house person has their own healthy grasp on the 8th house, however, they will respect the moon person and wait patiently for them to willingly make themselves vulnerable, if they ever do.

The house person may feel existentially tethered to the moon person. The moon person may come to feel as though the house person is a fortress guarding their inner world.

During times of trauma, grief, or fear, the 8th house person may latch onto the moon person as a source of comfort, and/or the moon person can feel personally invested in the recovery of the 8th house person.

The house person’s fear of betrayal and loss may be eased around them. However, any betrayal or loss suffered at the hands of or even just despite the support of the moon person is that much more painful.

Both the moon person and the house person run a bit higher risk of becoming obsessive or unhealthy about the dynamic and other person.

For the house person, obsession will be early. It’s heady to start and may spiral due to possessiveness. Beware controlling behavior.

For the moon person, obsession is latent. It sneaks in with time, and may spiral due to overprotectiveness. Beware gaslighting.

Why does one of us seem more affected by this synastry overlay than the other?

Every synastry chart contains overlays for every planet or object. The chart’s aspects, in addition to factors in each member’s natal chart as well as real world context, dictate which overlays are significant to both or either member of the relationship.

Here is a list of things which can cause an individual to be more affected by a moon in the 8th house synastry overlay: 

Being Moon-dominant. This could include: having a Cancer Rising, having planets in the 4th house; having major Lunar aspects, especially in personal planets and angles; having Moon-ruled Nakshatras, especially in the Big Three [Vedic only]; and having angles or personal planets in Lunar degrees, especially the Big Three [Western only].

Being Pluto-dominant [Western only]. This could include: having a Scorpio Rising; having personal planets in the 8th house; having major Pluto aspects to personal planets or the angles; and having angles or personal planets in Pluto/Scorpio degrees, especially your Big Three.

Being Mars-dominant [Vedic only]. This could include: having a Scorpio (or Aries) Rising; having planets and nodes in the 8th (or 1st) house; having major Mars aspects; and having Mars-ruled Nakshatras (especially in the Big Three).

Temporary heightening can be felt by those undergoing major Moon Transits. For Vedic, this means Transit Moon aspecting the natal Sun, Moon, Rising, Nodes, or Moon’s Nakshatra ruler, or if it’s entering a house ruled by the sign of the natal Moon. For Western, this means Transit Moon aspecting the natal personal planets, angles, or sign ruler of one of the Big Three, or if it’s entering the house ruled by the sign of the natal Moon.

Temporary heightening can be felt by those undergoing major Pluto Transits [Western only]. This means Transit Pluto aspecting the natal personal planets, angles, or the sign ruler of one of the Big Three, or if it’s entering the house ruled by the sign of natal Pluto.

Temporary heightening can be felt by those undergoing major Mars Transits [Vedic only]. This means Transit Mars aspecting the natal Sun, Moon, Rising, Nodes, or Mar’s Nakshatra ruler, or if it’s entering a house ruled by the sign of the natal Mars. 

Temporary heightening can be felt by those with Moon-dominant Solar Return charts.

Temporary heightening can be felt by those with Pluto-dominant Solar Return charts [Western only].

Temporary heightening can be felt by those with Mars-dominant Solar Return charts [Vedic only].

Thank you for reading, and I hope this was helpful!