#howtohandle

[soolegal]

𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐓𝐎 𝐇𝐀𝐍𝐃𝐋𝐄 𝐀 𝐒𝐈𝐓𝐔𝐀𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍 𝐖𝐇𝐄𝐍 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐆𝐄𝐓 𝐀𝐍 𝐈𝐍𝐂𝐎𝐌𝐄 𝐓𝐀𝐗 𝐍𝐎𝐓𝐈𝐂𝐄 ?

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[zoyaamirin]

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[sflysearching]

4 tips on fear

 This is  just a quick thing Ima put here... just in case anybody is struggling with fear in their lives. Im not talking about a fear of fire or getting hurt or like heights. Im talking about that fear of the unknown. That fear that stops us from doing whatever it is we want to do. A fear that I’ve come to notice in my life. So here’s some tips on cultivating and growing that fear.

1. Try to pinpoint where in your life you got it..             It doesnt matter that it affects you now. You gotta bring up all the times you felt bad or limited or stuck. These situations could probably be stemmed back to a far far time ago, when you first encountered this fear. Nevermind now, it happened when you were 5 and by dragging up all these emotions you’ll help it, in the same way you help a cut by picking at it. It’s not important to improve yourself now, but rather justify that because you were this in the past, you are this now.

2. Recognize this fear has only one face.                 Fear doesnt come in different ways. You’re not distracting yourself with a good time, when you should be going after what you want. Instead you’re just distracting yourself because you feel bad about what you want. This isn’t a bad thing as you move away from your fear, in the sense that youre moving away from what causes the fear, to something that will make you feel good. Like drinking instead of working on that article on tips for being happy. It’s important to understand that it’s not so much that it’s the fear, but it’s whats causing the fear that you need to stay away from, as this causes fear. Because 

3. you got to avoid fear.       Fear, doubt, worry, all those bad emotions need to be avoided. If you’re experiencing them chances are your doing something wrong.  You’re supposed to be happy all the time,and in avoiding these emotions you dont have to understand or process them. Instead you become less human and more divine...in the sense that you have less emotions. And it’s important to avoid these things because....

4.  These emotions are there to hurt you.        You can’t look at these emotions like they’re just emotions. Some emotions are actively out to get you. They’re not trying to tell you something like you may be leaving your comfort zone or somethings dangerous, they like society and people are out to get you. Like the squirrels that throw acorns at me, I understand that some things are just bad and emotions, only certain emotions fall into this category.  The more labels you can give to your emotions the less you can see it as a guidance system and more as a set of abstract things that have nothing to do with anything.

I hope this nurtures your fears really well!  

[joanaleonordp-blog]

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Por vezes a coisa que mais quero em todo o mundo é desaparecer. O que não é sinónimo de morrer. Desaparecer por breves instantes e ficar numa posição de superioridade, não estatual mas de altura, em que consiga ver tudo aquilo que fazem na terra, e tentar entender qual o melhor rumo a tomar na minha vida: distanciar-me daquilo que aqui me prende e, por breves minutos apenas, poder sentir a leveza do meu ser, poder sentir a plenitude de nada sentir e apenas existir, mas não numa forma vazia e sim num todo. Por vezes, aquilo que mais queria, era poder avaliar a minha vida de forma externa. Pensar sobre o que me aflige de forma impessoal e lidar com os meus conflitos de forma simples: preto no branco. O meu problema, é viver constantemente numa área cinzenta: nada é certo, tudo é subjetivo. O meu problema, é não saber lidar com os meus erros. O meu problema, é querer sempre ver tudo de uma forma impessoal, e não me querer comprometer nunca. O meu problema, é idealizar-me como uma figura que é perfeita, e que deve corresponder a todos da forma mais assertiva possível, de modo a ajudar todos e não faltar a ninguém. O meu problema, é que quando chega a altura de corresponder às minhas próprias expectativas, deixo-as de lado. Sim, sou uma idealista nata. Sim, todos os meus problemas são mentais, têm a ver com as minhas próprias impressões do mundo. Sim, tenho muitos problemas por resolver e sim, isso chateia-me. Mas no fim do dia, por muito exausta que esteja, por muito farta de ser assim e por muito querer que tudo desapareça, eu sei que dei o melhor de mim aos outros. Ainda que chegue a casa e tenha o pior de mim à minha espera para acertar contas. 

[shut-the-fuck]

still trying

tomorrow I have a biology test. I’m stressed as hell because everyone said the test is impossible to pass. this pressure instead of making me feel more motivated to study more, makes me feel like shit and to really ask myself: is this worth it? I mean, how many more tests I’ll have to do in my life? How many days and nights I’ll have to spend studying things I don’t even care about. I know this is a fase and everyone has to go through it but It’s just so exhausting and pointless. I’ll keep studying anyway and respecting this system that I am chained to.

[germanpoetist]

You don't forget things... you just handle them differently

[carosandchemistry-blog]

It isn't finals time, but I already feel sometimes like I'm in this time. http://pin.it/MEuqoJe

[camaramandy]

Now that I've gone blonde I use a timer in the shower to make sure I keep my hair products/treatment on point 😉 who else does that? Am I the only crazy one? 😳 #hairroutine #blonde #hairmask #timer #hairtreatment #onceugoblonde #somuchwork #shower #routine #newlifestyle #hair #products #howtohandle