idk, is there even anything like femme 4 femme love irl? all the femmes seem to date the bois (even i have been guilty) or wanna get away with treating each other just as badly. i get so fucking angry witnessing ppl be hypocritical, like what does masculinity even have to offer? i’ve been in plenty of femme/femme relationships and dynamics, and i have honestly felt a unique feeling in each one that could def not be replicated in femme/boi dynamics, and i wish that occurred just as often, if not more, than the typical heteronormative shit our community seems to gravitate (discreetly/quietly/invisibly) to. the times i have called out and searched for femme support/love, it almost feels like i was cast aside for a boi’s feelings, like how the fuck do we even tolerate this shit continuing?