#heteronormativity

[dusk-the-fallen]

"Is it okay to chest bind if I identify as a woman?" "I'm cis but I want to use binders" "Is it okay to go on T if I'm a cis woman-"

BUDDY. FRIEND. PAL. YOU DO NOT NEED PERMISSION. THOSE RESOURCES AREN'T AVAILABLE FOR ONE SPECIFIC GROUP! THEY'RE AVAILABLE FOR ANYONE WHO NEEDS IT! STOP ASKING FOR PERMISSION I PROMISE YOU NO ONE CARES WHAT YOU DO!

Edit: Radqueers fuck off. This post is not for you.

Edit 2: What the hell are TERFs doing here lmao

[ghostlyfroggy]

Why would I care if other people my age are dating? Other people my age are in jail.

Stop pushing your heteronormative ideals on me, I just want to watch silly cartoons and cuddle with my cats.

[aro-ace-culture-is]

Aroace culture is hating that straight people can’t be normal about children. If a toddler has a friend that’s the opposite sex, they’ll be like, ‘ooh, is she your girlfriend?’ Karen, Jayden is three years old and he cried yesterday because he found out that worms don’t have legs. Let kids be kids, and don’t force your heteronormativity on literal toddlers.

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[thebisexualwreckoning]

And I think one of the biggest reasons people think butchfemme is heteronormative is because they forget that butchfemme are political identities first and aesthetic identities second

[sufferingfrommoodpoisoning]

I noticed this mask whenever Mike and El are together. It might be a visual motif for their masking behaviour.

S3, EP1

S4, EP3

[paladin-and-sorcerer]

If Will Byers was a girl you’d never hear the end of her being shipped with Mike.

And you cannot convince me otherwise.

[this-is-amato-heteronormativity]

Begging people in fandom spaces to stop treating nonqueer as the default.

An unconfirmed character is not automatically allorose, monorose, straight, monogamous, with 0 prioritized nonrose (platonic/queerplatonic, alterous, sensual, etc) attraction.

An unconfirmed character is not automatically unaltered perisex, cisgender, binary, gender conforming, and pronoun conforming.

Unless the creator or character explicitly states that they are all of those things, then you literally cannot tell people "[insert character here] isn't queer!"

(And also people are allowed to headcanon things that defy canon for the sake of fun and representation, but that's a different discussion to be had.)

[animentality]