#identity talk

[aychama]

I remember when I was a teenager I would say stuff like "oh I'm not into romance because I want to study, get a job and then think about marriage when I am like 24" whenever someone asked if I was seeing someone.

And now I'm 24.

I guess child me was using that as an excuse because I didn't know I was aroace and did not want to be in a relationship and have people keep pestering me about it.

What I'm saying is, we are always who we are even without labels. Sometimes its complicated and changing but its still us.

[thoughts-from-a-monster]

Gods I love being the flavor of nonbinary where I revisited my femininity later to finally settle with nonbinary as my identity. I'm still mainly masc/androgynous at heart, but sometimes being a girl rocks, too. I'm everything at anytime always, and that's awesome!!

[soundtestmenu]

i don't like making my identity as a trans woman my most prominent trait. very good for people that do, but i would rather want to be distinguished as a video game music appreciator foremost

[mayuzumiiis]

so i think phm helped me realize i'm actually aroace and not just ace

not sure which microlabel fits rn but aroace feels right

[cosmiccrunchies]

Having a lesbian in front is a recession indicator

[cosmiccrunchies]

Where did we get the idea that being transmasc means we plan to transition? That isn't even true. No gender is required to transition to feel like that gender. What the fuck kinda bullshit were we being told for years I'm CRYING!!

[masteroccultist]

its that time of year again where i wonder if im a lesbian or ace