You know what doesn't make sense?
The _____ has no gender argument. colors/toys/cars/music/movies/WHATEVER. Sure it’s cool to wear dresses and anyone to have short or long hair and everyone to wear make up and anyone to wear whatever the hell they want to because it’s their choice to express themselves however they want. But as soon as you start saying that these things don’t represent or aren’t attached to a gender, that’s bullshit. Our society has forced a dichotomy for so many things to be gendered that it makes no sense to deny it. I’m not saying you can’t deny it, you’re allowed to do whatever you want. I’m saying it doesn’t make sense to deny it. Because the majority of people will think “oh what a lovely dress that lovely GIRL is wearing” on first quick glance upon anyone wearing a dress.
Also it doesn’t make sense in the area of (usually) when someone is transitioning, they will dress as the gender that they are transitioning to so that society will better recognize them as that gender that they are dressing like. this just proves the point that some things are so ingrained into our society as gendered.
So it’s fine to deny object’s and fashion’s gender, but that doesn’t mean they don’t have them in the eyes of more people than not.