20 & 31 of the be honest meme?
THE BE HONEST MEME. aka things you lowkey want to talk about but don’t because you don’t know how to bring it up. send me a number and i’ll tell you the honest truth. either a simple yes or no answer or a detailed response. |
Have you ever felt pressured to write something you weren’t comfortable with?
Don't you know it, bby -
my experiences in other fandoms have been eh. The trouble with playing villains is that people think they can use the villains as their muse's personal villain and that just -
like, let's have some discussion, please.
I'm gangster for fucked up plots and I enjoy writing dark material but the amount of people who would send me prompts like 'my muse is chained up and vulnerable and yours is torturing him uwu' and I'd just ??? Or the rape plots. My god the rape plots.
re torture, it s easier writing a victim than the perpetrator and I think people forget this
You see someone reblog a nsfw meme and they encourage you to send it, you send it and then the reply is literally their muse being raped by yours and it's just. What the fuck? I had that a few times and it disturbed me and quite frankly pissed me off. My muses may be scumbags but they're not rapists.
Nowadays (thankfully) I think I'm much more solid about my boundaries and I always try and establish a medium before heading the shippy route, so I haven't had to deal with anything shit. But yeah - like, I just hated being forced to write fetish fuel for people. Especially people with catboy twinks that wanted 'daddy's uwu dick' - that was never fun. And almost always when I told people who gave me these vibes that I wasn't into the ship or didn't want to do a romantic ship, I'd either be blocked, hounded or ghosted. SMH.
Is there something you don’t know the meaning of but you haven’t asked anyone because you think it’s supposed to be general knowledge? Was there ever something you had to ask someone to explain?
Honestly? Some of the kinks people parade on this site. I mean, I'm a sexually active twenty something and sometimes I see kinks on here and I'm like 'the fuck is THAT?' Google aint my friend. Google hates me.
Also certain genres, like A/B/O, I still kinda don't know what that means I just know I don't wanna do it (lmao).
When I came back to RPing last year I was baffled by the use of banners and stuff ( that caught me off guard ) Generally, I just google stuff because I don't wanna look 2 boomer 4 every1
