Just gotta vent some personal shit somewhere I know she won't see it..
My mother is selling the house and after several years of living there with no prepared pension or late life cushion, completely drained everything the family had built up over the generations. Everything, gone. Whatever "estate" my grandparents built is gone. Because she didn't bother preparing any retirement and put all her faith in us taking care of her (spoiler alert, neither of us have any intention of caring for someone who never cared about us. We don't have the money and my sister has a child. She can go live in her tiny home all she wants, away from us).
I'm angry my mother didn't prepare for this and I'm angry that taxes quite literally absorbed my entire "family estate" (there wasn't even that much to begin with) to the point my mother has to sell.
I don't want to be here anymore...
My family, officially, has absolutely nothing. If we had anything to begin with, it's completely gone.
If you have a close relationship with your mother, hug her for me. Mine never figured out how to do it properly...