In my experience, part of difficulty transcribing thoughts goes something like this.
Imagine you encounter someone you don't mind. You notice that today they look especially awesome. Their hair is done up nicely, they're wearing a thoughtfully put-together outfit, they've got tastefully applied perfume, generally really dressed up
Altogether, they look awesome :]
You've observed all these details individually
We have a series of components!
Hair? is nice. Clothes? very nice! Perfume? smells nice!!
So let's put them together! Bake a cake!
Your hair smells nice today
FUCKKKKKKK THIS CAKE IS SHIT
What should happen is clothes + hair + perfume = appearance nice
an intended combination may be something like... "you look nice today" or "your outfit is nice" or possibly "hair looks great today" maybe even "is that a new perfume? It suits you!"
however! now your friend is going to throw rocks at you, because... Instead of blending the components, parts remain unprocessed.
My brain catches on these individual pieces. :{ They detract from the original intended goal(polite compliment!!!) and instead become THING I DIDN'T MEAN AT ALL!!! WHY DID I SAY THAT!!! WHAT'S WRONG WITH MEEEE