//I got RaTara 3 times XD//
who throws things in a fight ?
Lotara, though Ra is not likely to provoke her to World Eater levels of rage.
who goes to their parent’s house for a weekend when things get bad ?
Lotara, tho in this case not so much parents as she’d simply return to her ship/Legion if at all possible.
who wants to have children ? who doesn’t ? if both do, how do their goals differentiate ?
Ra likes the idea of children more, though Lotara isn’t explicitly opposed to that(though both thought Ra was sterile so Celest was a bit of a surprise to be sure). Their goals more or less are the same- they want their children to be happy, healthy, fiercely loyal, intelligent, physically capable, etc- but their approach to parenting is different. Ra has more experience with the Ligo Aetos, but has to adjust to an infant and the fact that their children would not grow to become Custodians and thus would not require the same training/focus. He is very authoritative. Lotara on the other hand tends to be more authoritarian, expecting the same kind of obedience she gets from her crew. It’s a learning curve for both.
who is more adverse to physical contact ?
Lotara burns out far more quickly, and when over stimulated will withdraw.
who hates/dislikes their neighbors the most ?
Lotara - she has a lot more expressed passionate loathing for people in general.
who is most likely to leave when things get rough ?
Neither - Ra doesn’t like things left unresolved and Lotara isn’t one to back down in a fight.
who thinks their partner turned out a different person than they thought ?
Ra - he had heard stories of the mistress of the Conqueror, and had made assumptions based on his knowledge of the Legion, but he was pleasantly surprised to discover the real her.
who is more likely to cheat ?
Neither - both are fiercely loyal once in a committed relationship
who is the more experienced ( sexually or otherwise ) ?
Probably Lotara, if only because she’s tried more, but not by a lot.
who hates/dislikes their significant other’s friends ?
Ra; it takes a special kind to really appreciate the World Eaters.
who wants to go to social gatherings the most ?
Neither - both don’t like the gawking or the need to put on airs in the public eye.
who is most likely to be dishonest ?
Ra; he has far more secrets he must keep.
who is more emotionally closed off and how does this affect their partner ?
Ra; there isn’t total trust there sometimes. She is still human, still fallible, still loyal to a Legion who would defy their true Master, and he’ll occasionally grow distant when one of those things becomes hard to ignore. Lotara grieves over it when she notices, but she swore an oath to the Primarch of the XIIth. Duty always came first between them, as much as it hurt sometimes.
who is the dessert person ?
who is more conservative ?
Ra; Lotara is not above anything that will win her a fight.
who hates/dislikes oral sex ?
Neither, though Lotara has a bit more of a struggle going down on Ra than he does on her simply with the difference in anatomy.