#imnotbroken

[rensfighters-blog]

HI I’M...

a mix between: 

-Ace/Grey Ace

-Aromantic

-demisexual/romantic

-Pansexual

-panromantic

-androromantic/sexual

certainly: 

-queer

-nonbinary

-trans FTM with he/him pronouns <3

[overreactasaurusrex]

Does anybody else find themselves discouraged over how hard it is to find like minded childfree people?

I’m 32, my two most serious relationships (including one engagement) ended because the men I had relationships with finally decided that me not wanting kids was a deal breaker. One after 5 years, one after 2. I’m single. I want to travel and spend my money the ways that I want. I don’t want children. And honestly, babies make me nauseous.

I don’t know if babies make me nauseous because I find it disturbing how people fawn over them when they’re just going to be screaming demons until they become functional adults who will probably suck anyway, or because they’re screaming disgusting and sticky demons who just suck more and more as they get older.

I don’t like babies, I don’t like children. Hell I really don’t like people. I just like animals. But it’s just frustrating to never be able to find like minded people who also want a childfree life.

It’s like everyone is blinded by this stupid societal norm that getting married and popping out humans you can’t afford is truly the best life to live.

[overreactasaurusrex]

Everyone my age has had kids at this point.

ONE of those women looks fantastic and worked her ass off to get her body back after three kids.

The rest are massive and just keep getting bigger and complaining about how motherhood ruined them. You’re right. It did ruin you. You’re massive and look like you’ve been hit by a truck every damn day. And the fact that you’re now a miserable fucking beast doesn’t help.

[overreactasaurusrex]

Hormones are some crazy shit. Can you imagine something strong enough to trick your brain into looking at a newborn baby and thinking, “my god that’s beautiful.” Instead of, “Jesus Christ it looks like a deformed potato-alien hybrid!”

Because fuck that noise. They ALL LOOK LIKE ALIEN POTATOES!

[overreactasaurusrex]

“But what if you DO change your mind?”

Then I’ll change my mind and have a fuggin kid and it STILL won’t be your problem or your business so SHUT THE FUCK UP AND STOP WORRYING ABOUT MY UTERUS.

[overreactasaurusrex]

Someone asked me today why I wear my childfree status like a badge. Well why not? Parents wear their offspring like a badge? The thing they're most proud of. It's all they talk about, all they care about. And no matter what the conversation is that's their only talking point. So why can't I wear my childfree stance like a badge? Why can't I talk about why I'll never want them? Why is my life choice offending you so badly? And also, I just really sincerely enjoy pissing people off with things that they shouldn't care about 💁🏼

[overreactasaurusrex]

Me: Man, I'm tired. Parent: you won't know tired until you have kids. Me: ugh, everything hurts. Parent: you won't know pain until you slip and fall on a pile of legos and other toys that your kids leave around! Me: my house is such a mess. Parent: PSH! You should see mine! I haven't seen the floor in weeks, there's PILES of laundry , and the dishes are to the ceiling! Me: my job is so exhausting! Parent: you'll never know exhausting until you have kids and have to work 24 hours a day! Me: I'm so sick, I need a day off. Parent: just wait until you have kids. No sick days, no days off, you give up all of your privacy and you'll never be able to take care of yourself again. Me: I haven't showered in two days. I feel gross. Parent: I haven't had a shower in a week! Me: I'm so glad I don't have kids, sounds like they really fucking suck. Parent: I've just spend three hours complaining about my kids but YOU'RE WRONG! Kids are a blessing and your life won't be fulfilled without them!!!! Me: you're all in fucking denial.

[overreactasaurusrex]

"But what about grandchildren?" I won't fucking like those, either. 🖕🏻