like why am i even bothered
a break up is a break up. doesn't matter how long you guys dated, everything ends there. EVERYTHING. no loose ends. even though she/he said you guys could still be friends, you just can't yenoo? i mean after that im pretty sure you'll just start ignoring each other thinking maybe it's for the best idk or maybe you're just fed up with that person that you can't stand being around her/him. one of the things i don't get tho when a break up happens, some people tend to make a 'deal' [idek..sounds more like an excuse to get back together lol] anyway a DEAL out of things like say 'if you become a sophisticated-elegant-aw wth a millionaire? and you still love me, we can get back together' like wtf? that's basically saying 'ok i can't stand you, lets break up for a few years..10 years? 10 years is good. maybe if you're done school, got rich, maybe get all nice and sexy and you still love me then come and find me so we can hook up' YEAH OK [ahahahaha i think i might've over exaggerated that but w/e] that's what the person is really saying. but why make a deal right after or before you break up? or why break up at all if you still think that you would want to be with your partner by the time he/she becomes independent and successful? actually that's not even my point. my point is if you broke up, she/he is an EXgirl/boyfriend already and she/he is one for a reassoooon. she/he is an EXample of a person that you should not date ever or even go back to [unless you're madly in love with each other which is rarely the case or maybe one is just really good in bed that you want to get back with him/her. hm.] that can be a case. let's see if you last even a year without him/her.