I'm so annoyed with people saying looks shouldn't matter at all
This may come off as bitchy and I'm sorry but... Anyone that says looks don't matter at all has to be lying. A guy could have the absolute best personality and be the funniest guy ever, but if I don't find him physically attractive to any extent I can't date him. If I don't think he's at least somewhat good looking I'm not going to want to kiss him or touch him or anything, I'm not saying he has to look like a model but if he's not my type mentally AND physically then he's not my type and I'm sorry but he has no chance of dating me. Same goes the other way, I would never date a guy I don't find intellectually stimulating and funny and nice. I would maybe hook up with him but nothing more would come from that.