Things that are valid:
*using labels
*not wanting a label
*using microlabels, even several of them, to precisely describe your identity
*using a general umbrella term instead
*using a general umbrella term in some spaces and microlabels in others
*sticking with a label you're attached too even when you found something that technically describes you better
*switching labels when you find one that fits you better, no matter how often you switch
*making up your own label if you can't find one you like
Things that are NOT valid:
*giving people shit for how they ID
*trying to dictate another persons ID
















