I like people. I like being close to them. I like caring and being cared for. But I don’t want to belong to just one person and I don’t want someone to belong to me. I can hug, cuddle, talk deeply, and love spending time together without promising “forever” or “only you.” Being close doesn’t mean we have to make big promises. It just means we enjoy each other right now. I tell people the rules clearly so nobody gets tricked or hurt. I won’t pretend I’m something I’m not just to make someone feel better. I don’t fix people. I don’t save people. I don’t become their only support. I stay kind, honest, and warm but I also protect my own space. If someone likes this way of being, we can play together. If they don’t, that’s okay — they can choose something else. Nobody is bad. Nobody is wrong. We just have different ways of loving. That’s who I am.












