#intpxenfj

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[intpconvos]

INTP trying to get their head around having a social event

INTP: I have a social event next week and the week after that, and the week after that

ENFJ: Okay

- 1 Day Later -

INTP: Hey have I told you that I have a social event next week? And the week after that and the week after that? Crazyyy

ENFJ: Yes

- 2 Days later -

ENFJ: *mindlessly talking about their day*

INTP:

ENFJ:

INTP: You know I have a social event next week, right? And then the wee—

ENFJ: YES! YOU SAID IT LIKE A MILLION TIMES!!!

[enfjunked]

ENFJ: I need to tell you. You hurt me with your joke while we were playing games yesterday but i didn't tell you because i was scared you got sad with it

INTP says formally: Forgive me for the comment, i am really sorry if it makes you sad. If i hurt you with this comment it wasn't my intention. Even with my apologize i know that i can't measure how much my words hurt you. I failed as a friend for not realizing you were sad, I swear i'll pay attencion in your feelings next time. How are you now?

ENFJ: I am kind better, thank you for understand.

INTP: Can i help you with something?

ENFJ: Yes, could you play again with me, pleaseee?

INTP: Yeah

[freshmbtimemes]

[mbtype]

ENFJ: I love you

INTP: We just met

ENFJ: Stop using the same excuse for not say "I love you" back. We are almost married!

INTP: Almost.

[mbtiexperiences]

INTP x ENFJ

my type: well I'm definitely an INTP and the one in the relationship I'm talking about is also INTP. I didn't get a confirmation from him but I did low key ask him typing questions and he's a cartoonishly exaggerated example of his type.

their type: She is also a cartoonish extreme of an ENFJ. Won't eat until everyone else is sitting at the table, not out of principle, just because she wants to make sure everyone has what they need. Decided she was going to go to Harvard in 5th grade and made it. Only thing missing is a very organized cult. We also talked about it and she types herself as ENFJ-ENTJ cusp, but she hadn't studied functions at all and is definitely Fe dom.

As someone who was introduced to MBTI through Please Understand Me II, I got really excited when I met one of Keirsey's predicted best matches. I was always a little skeptical because I personally could never see myself in a relationship with an ENFJ. I'd feel so responsible for their wellbeing and they need verbal validation like a fish needs water. I was pleasantly surprised to see how it can work very well.

They are both very intelligent people. The ENFJ is type A to the extreme - she even jokes about her J personality type whenever she's planning something. The INTP is laid back but competent and cooperative whenever his wife needs something. She likes that he is 100% honest all the time so that she doesn't have to worry about him secretly needing something and not telling her. It's a lot harder to get INTPs to talk about themselves so I didn't get the lowdown on his perspective but I could tell that he appreciates her willingness to take on the J duties, her emotional aptitude, and how she likes hearing about the stuff he likes. The ENFJ falls apart at the merest mention of conflict so it's nice for her to have an INTP around who can get to the bottom of a problem in a calm rational way. They're one of the cutest couples I've ever seen. The competent, logical, laid-back INTPs seem like the perfect match for your average high strung ENxJ.

The only thing they bicker about is grammar.

I guess I'll talk about my relationship with the ENFJ since you're in this tag unless you're seeing it on your dash. I think she's SO COOL. OMG BEST PERSON EVER. She's not smothering at all. She loves to talk about ideas. We can have deep conversations for hours. I'd even say I get along with her as well as I get along with most INFJs. I did wonder if she might not be INFJ but she thinks she's an extrovert and I can't say I disagree.

In conclusion: ENFJ has at least two INTPs head over heels for her. One is the perfect life partner. INTPxENFJ = A+ match.

edit: anon would like to respond to @incidentalpiratess and say that yes she is N as hell and that if she is mistyped it would be as INFJ.