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[unshadowbannedbaeddel]

being one of 3 transfems in the pronoun round that states she/her and getting leered at by the transmascs whos faces say "i dropped those pronouns, but not for YOU to pick them up" gimme a break!

[unshadowbannedbaeddel]

half the transandrophobia truth fandom is made up of transmascs who's only problem with terfs is that they misgender them

[unshadowbannedbaeddel]

interested to know what you think the potential demographic data in that 'do you think of your young self as your agab' poll would show!

i mean, i wanna know if my anecdotal experiences are more useful than not, coz ive met far more transmascs that tend to strongly hold onto their cagab (even to go as far as to view it as not coercive) whereas trasfems have tended to not so much, with quite a few of them thinking of their younger self as their cagab.

the thing that was ultimately missing from the poll though, too, was a lot of nuanced answers, like if you dont view yoursel for children in general as being as gendered as adults or if you see yourself as a nonbinary child or if you viewed your gender as a direct result from the coercive nature of gender assignment for people who later realise or grow into transgenderism. theres a lot to be said and its kind of contentious.

but i will say this. transmisogyny is backwards compatible, in that, if you realise you're transfem later on in life, you likely experienced transmisogyny before you realised you were a transfem (maybe a hot take but im not saying we should view all cis men this way since i dont see much use in it in that reards)