#transmisogyny **

[unshadowbannedbaeddel]

if you dont understand why a tma person might get bothered when transmasculine erasure is talked about, maybe you need to shut the fuck up and listen to whats being said - 1 its always contrast against the violence of hyper visibility of transfeminine people and 2 it refuses the reality that that transmasc on transfem sexual violence is doable because of the nature of that erasure. if you cant put that together then im not the person to elaborate farther, because it would be inappropriate for someone to demand why a rape victim would have to go into painful details about the political nature of their rape and subsequent social ramifications (darvo, social death, etc).

like.

the utter lack of meaningful transfeminism involved in trans discourse means that the trans patriarchy is the default.

[unshadowbannedbaeddel]

calling terms that transfemmes use to navigate the various forms of violence we have to face bullshit is just transmisogyny, regardless of how insulting you might find it personally! the oppressed don't have an obligation to make their survival appealing to those who benefit from their oppression

[unshadowbannedbaeddel]

half the transandrophobia truth fandom is made up of transmascs who's only problem with terfs is that they misgender them

[unshadowbannedbaeddel]

I was trying to explain the dangers of cis bihet girls to a tgirl and just had to level W her like: differing consequences ime. any time a dude went past my boundaries the world stopped. the moment it was a woman? group DARVO bonding activity lmao

[unshadowbannedbaeddel]

why are u complaining that nbdy sees u as a woman when u detransed for the cummies? retard

Transition is fake beyond the point from when you decide you are who/what you are. The rest is affirmation, personal preference and/or compulsory cis shit; so sorry you're bought and sold on what-ever essentialist train you're on? also I think women have the right to talk about their issues, even when it's very particular, but that's just coz I'm a feminist, idk about you though!

[unshadowbannedbaeddel]

All you have is a surface level shit I blast out onto a blog and you're baiting me to reveal information about myself in order to justify the things I do and don't do and to argue with someone (you) who's revealed nothing about themself, about whether or not something is choice or not - as if that at all changes the disgusting gender politics implied by what you're expressing.

Simply put, fundamentally you're wrong in the core of your understanding of gender.

Woman can come in so many different forms and I'm the kind that you're so upset about to the point of watching my blog for when I respond to your anons lmao. Glad to exist in such a way! thank you for letting me know 😘

[unshadowbannedbaeddel]

no cis man got me kicked out of a community, no cis man spear headed me being banished from a political org, no one doubted if a cis man hurt me. the fact is, in certain spaces, cis men are under so much scrutiny that they simply cannot wield the typical kind of power they might in wider society, yet in these same spaces, because transmisogyny is only ever addressed when its cis men who are doing it, it leaves a power vacuum that cis women and transmasculine people fill. transmaculine people's erasure is a double edged blade that allows them to be invisible predators to transfeminine people but also can leave them without support where they aught to have it - cis women however, i dont know where to begin other than that unless they are visibly mentally unwell and annoy people, they too are rarely pulled up on their transmisogyny in similar ways.