Apr 3
A Five-Step Program For Formatting Your Mind Specifically Designed For Self-Hatred
3. The fatal glitch. The ideal is unachievable (by design)
The trap is that many these ideals are statistically impossible for most people (e.g., the “perfect” body, the “hustle 24/7” lifestyle, the effortless charisma). Even worse, many of them directly contradict our natural temperament. A deeply introverted kid is told “be outgoing and magnetic.” A sensitive kid is told “don’t be so pussy.” A creative kid is told “be practical and productive.”
We keep trying because the mind still believes “If I can just become this ideal version, I will finally have power and stop feeling anxious/empty.” But we can’t. We fall short again and again.
