Aug 20, 2013
one thing that a lot of people don't realize is that sometimes, when someone says, "I feel like I'm ____ " and it's a negative statement, sometimes they're not looking for you to say, "Oh! don't say that! That's not true~!"
because it immediately invalidates the feelings of that person in that instant. i'm saying this because it happens to me all the time, and it's like
fuck off i'm not looking for that.