May 23, 2018
Just Keep Looking for new tracks on my new album. Like this one here. Out on June 29th. Pre Order a copy now at andrewbonbosher.com #jungle #techno #invisiblewalls
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Just Keep Looking for new tracks on my new album. Like this one here. Out on June 29th. Pre Order a copy now at andrewbonbosher.com #jungle #techno #invisiblewalls
Il gioco PvP basato su squadre NEIGHBORS: Suburban Warfare verrà lanciato in Accesso Anticipato su PC (Steam) il 17 Aprile, ha annunciato lo sviluppatore Invisible Walls. Un playtest è ora disponibile.
Boundaries, Pt 1
Boundaries are really hard.
Every time I think I have mastered the concept – I turn another corner and need to set another one. It turns out – I just have theoretical appreciation for boundaries as taught in books and podcasts. Actually practicing the setting and follow-through of boundaries, though? I need some work.
So, let’s talk about boundaries.
What is a boundary? Oxford defines it as “a line that marks the limits of an area; a dividing line; a limit of a subject or sphere of activity.”
That is both vague and very specific. It turns out a boundary can be a fence, a wall, or just a limit.
Due to past trauma, I have set some hard limits on what I feel is appropriate and not appropriate for my life now. One might call those boundaries walls. They cannot be opened or moved or changed with ease. These are necessary.
The trouble is I have recently come to realize those walls are only in my head. I have not spoken them out loud. So, the walls, as it turns out, are invisible. I expect people to see them and respect them. I get confused when people run through them. Then I get mad. “How dare people disrespect me like that!”
Only upon reflection have I realized I have allowed them to run through them, because they do not know the walls are there. I cannot read anyone else’s mind, so why should I expect someone to read mine?
It turns out – I need to have an actual conversation with people and tell them what my boundaries are. That is so hard. Because I have been trained to make people happy. I am a well-versed peace-keeper- for everyone but me. To make the wall visible, I must tell people about my boundaries. And that is scary.
I can think of one situation that I have been avoiding. In my mind, the wall is clearly 10 feet tall. But my close relative is standing right next to it looking in the window. And she sees no wall. It is time for me to paint it. It is time for me to set a boundary.
It is my hope that sharing this journey will make you think about your boundaries. The ones you think you might have set, but need to be spoken. Maybe we can do it together?
Stop holding yourself back. Stop making excuses to justify yourself. #invisiblewalls #breakthrough.
Stop holding yourself back. Stop making excuses to justify yourself. #invisiblewalls #breakthrough
Stop holding yourself back. Stop making excuses to justify yourself. #invisiblewalls #breakthrough.
Stop holding yourself back. Stop making excuses to justify yourself. #invisiblewalls #breakthrough.
The day is near. Here's a little taste of what's in the new album in a little better quality with some rad effects. Pre Order links for the album are in my bio. #halftime #dnb #jungle #invisiblewalls