If chivelry is truely dead its because woman killed it.
It never ceases to amaze me how the overwhelming majority fo women seem to gravitate towards men whom they know are going to treat them badly. Ladies there are signs that he gave off long before it ever got serious between yourself and boyfriend X but yet you forge ahead and throw yourselves into a doomed from the start relationship. Meanwhile that guy that is kind, stable, and loyal is standing right there be it that friend that always helps you when your car breaks down or the guy you call at 3am crying because you cant understand why the guy you gave everything to would rather be out drinking with the boys at a strip club (even though he told you he was at a friends house) than coming home to you. Ladies its about choice i mean come on you knew when you met him by how he behaved that you where a toy to him, yet you cling on thinking your gonna change him knowing all along that you couldn't you continue to hope when you know better. I truly think a majority of women are addicted to drama the like wondering where he is what hes doing and just cant wait for the fight they know is coming when he gets home. And all the while the good men of the world get to sit back and watch boyfriend X ruin you tear down your self worth and make you a broken down husk of mistrust then he will get his chance to try to rebuild you back to the wonderful person he always knew you where, but as a cruel twist once you back to being amazing Boyfriend X will breeze back into your life and you will abandon the good guy and go right back to the man that tore you down. Why ladies just why i am truly baffled did you know that women are the smarter of the two sex's its true back in the cave man days you all where responsible for the survival of man! You have instincts that have been passed down to you through DNA that spans all the way back to those cave man days. Yet i have watched the same bad choices being made time after time what do you think this teaches the good guys out there, it tells them why use the values that i was taught when they don't work? If i treat a woman as if shes the center of my world she will stay only until some guy will to treat her like trash comes along. Women seem to like drama so even if i like her i shouldn't show it unless I'm caught doing something that's a deal breaker. So the evolution that is rapidly taking place is that good men are now throwing away the values that have been taught to the by there fathers in favor of using what works. And then women cry "where have all the good me gone?" the short answer is they are all around you being ignored because they don't drive a sports car or a motorcycle or have flowing blond hair and huge muscles and they don't have fortune 500 jobs. what there do have is kind open hearts, the bravery to not only tell you how they feel but to show you no matter who happens to be looking, they also have a drive to take care of your needs because doing so not only makes you happy but them as well. You know what else comes with that package trust, honesty, friendship, and a love so pure that you never have to wonder.
So i have decided to help you ladies all out and list the things that should be clues that your man only sees you as a stop gap piece of side ass.
1)If your man tells you you can only call him at certain times defined by a short 2-4 hour window(without a REALLY good reason and because ill be sleeping isnt a good one.)then he is most likely juggling a few girls and and that is your time slot among them.
2)If he doesn't want to go out and do things with you during the day, that usually means that at night there's less of a chance of him running into anyone he knows while with you.
3)If every time you are alone with him he's trying to have sex with you, that usually means that he either feels that the sex is the only reason that hes with you or your so hot that all he cares about is your body and you should want more than that out of a relationship.
4)If your man has more than 5 females numbers in his phone(Mom and sisters don't count but cousins do) that means he doesn't expect to be with you that long and he needs to have some back up's.
5)If you haven't met any or only a few of his friends then he's hiding you and doesn't want people to know your together, you man should never be ashamed of you.
And so there you have it the next time your sitting there wondering why your man is treating you this way look no further than the mirrior
