“Look at what you have, not what you don’t have.” . In Wholly Sober I describe a scene where I was sitting in the middle of endless pieces of paper. Trying to find every receipt I could claim for business after not filing taxes for a couple of years. I had placed myself in a constant intentional state of numb—numb don’t care. I remember the feeling of being overwhelmed and thoughts of escaping trying to leak in my mind, but I kept thinking, on purpose, I AM FREE. . That’s what I had, FREEDOM. It wasn’t tangible. I couldn’t touch it. But I felt it in every cell of my body. . Sober is freedom. . Where’s your focus? Is it on what you have or what you “can’t or don’t” have. You always have choice. . #lifecoachforwomen #author #soberrevolution #empoweredwomen #itsnotaboutalcohol #returntoself #consciouschoices #theprimeddrinker https://www.instagram.com/p/BtD9wXqlQI5/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1sjmzafqluaik