Um, yeah. Yaknow, you can communicate with somebody, communicate a point of view. But when you end it with deal with it, you're saying " this is what I want to say, and I don't really care how you feel about it." Intellectually when we operate on that level and that level only there is always a lot of, um, oh.. justification ad criticism when two people are together and they wanna be with each other, you don't present your perspective and your POV with the exclamation point of deal with it. Everyone is entitled to how they feel. It's okay to have different points of view but see at the core of it we always come back to point that we care about eaCH Other. We care about what happens to each other. And the th8ing about the magnet doesn't apply here because two people are not inanimate objec ts. Two people are sposed to be "the whole is greater than the sum of its parts" there's human element and that's what people forget these days, the humanity, the feelings. have heart. I can understand fear, I can understand loneliness, I can understand distance as a strain on a relationship. Frankly we both know we won't meet anyone like each other, again. Whether we want to admit it to ourselves or not. It's hard being the age that we are, psychologically and emotionally. Physically, yes we're in our peak. But as we age we get a feel for what's important and what's not, we gain sense of self, and it gets more comfortable. But lo, here we are. And if you're gonna be ina relationship with somebody, you can't be hard. I am a sensitive person. You have to have lines of communication that resonate with our connection. You have to have faith, have trust. This is sacred. Don't screw it up with #dealwithit. I love you. I want to make this thing work. But anger changes you. Spiritually, it changes you.