Bug here. It blows my mind how women fans treat women. One hated G's reply to Jared's bday post, which I dug; he said perfect cabbages and we all know he's referring to her tits, which is both hot and loving on a husband's part. Her saying u're lucky I love u is both flirty and a sign of a deep, well-established connection. But the hater? She said sth like u're sitting in his house eating his food spending his money so shut up. That's their view of how a wife should act huh? Meek grateful slave?
I never understood that particular attitude especially by extreme Tinhat, did they expect the wives to work outside the home and provide entirely for herself while the hubands get off scot free and spend his high salary just on himself? Do they realize the word for those kind of husands? Deadbeats. Selfish deadbeats.
Wives are supposed to spend their husband money. Who else do they think he should give his money to, neighbour’s wife? How do Tinhats expect the wives to manage daily expenses like groceries and other needs and she has her own needs too?
That said, I think this is a form of female competition. Male competition has a certain mutual respect among men that seems to lack among female competition. As boys we are already boisterous and every pretend fights with sticks is also learning to cope with competition, violence, and physical harm. I think the male brain is designed to recognize and fit into hierarchies of domaniance. Sure this can lead to fights but when the heirarchy is settled, it stays stable longer. I think this is why men are more direct than women, and talk so much shit towards and among themselves. Meanhile female brains are better designed to deal with more flat and consensus-based structures, so when something happends that disturbs this consensus, women have less learned coping mechanisms to deal with it, culminating in the stereotypical back-stabbing, catty behavior.
“Why Women Compete with Eachother”
