The hypocrisy of the fandom becomes very apparent when it comes to the Mary/Mulciber and James/Severus situations.
The facts are:
Mulciber attempted something on Mary that involved Dark Magic.
He DID NOT commit sexual assault. That's not Canon.
But the fandom invented sexual assault on his part in order to portray Mulciber (and, by being his friend, Severus) as evil.
James, on the other hand, DID assault Severus.
It was sexual assault.
He actually did it.
But the fandom does not care, because the victim is Severus and the perpetrator is James.