#janellechique

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My Theory and Thoughts...

I think the way you change people for the better is by always giving them a good perspective to think about. Teaching them to see the glass half full and not half empty. By Janelle Chique

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My Theory and Thoughts...

I don't think we as humans only have Mind Body and Soul. I believe we have Mind, Body, Soul and Energy. A lot of people lack soul and are still alive explaining how energy never dies, even after your soul has diminished. By Janelle Chique

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Bad Habits: Breaking the Cycle

Breaking the cycle! Q: What happens when you are repeatedly mistreated, how do you break the cycle ? For example you get in bad relationship one after another with the same outcome. A: You have to change within for example myself I let others in willingly if they are charming enough, either with a sense of humor or if they are very intellectual. Those are my weaknesses I love to laugh and explore the mind. Once we are connected its like all walls are down. Since I know those are my weaknesses when it comes to charming people I don't put nothing past them my guard stays up until I reach a point of consistent comfort which only comes with time and life.

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Lessons from Life: Gratitude is the highest "Power"

God puts certain people in your life for certain reasons in certain times only to guide you through life. I'm glad I learned my lessons with the ones that truly love me because if I left it to society to teach me I might have not recovered from all my errors and be dead by now. Over these past months I've been on a spiritual kick and from it all I'm becoming a Virtuous Woman. I can really say at 23 my spiritual foundation in myself is complete and I'm working on becoming solid. Mind Body and Soul, tapping into the God within me. I want to say thank you to my loving sister who believes that I don't value or appreciate her I will always love and appreciate you but I will not always like you, if it wasn't for our mother for teaching me what real unconditional love is I don't know what my world would be like and don't care to know but you guys are teaching me so much about surviving, living life and thriving with my sanity and dignity intact. This world can be very draining with no mercy and sometimes little things like changing you're mind becomes a luxury, this world is known to suck out souls its can get deep dark and scary and the only thing that can get you out is in changing your belief. Know what to believe in and always accept only the raw truth and the power of life starts with in. Make sure your soul is a warrior and you live in an environment that increases your energy not deplete it. Most valuable possession anyone or anything can take from us is our Lives via Mind, body or Soul, protect love and cherish. Watch you're significance to this World flourish rather than the world draining you it will feed you with its greatest possession all by the strength in your belief. By: Janelle Chique

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Anything can exist but doesn't matter til we give it meaning

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Don't be an "ASS"umer

"When we believe something, we "assume" we are right about it to the point that we will destroy relationships in order to defend our position." Don Miguel Ruiz.

My theory When belief in one's self reaches that level it becomes pride or an ego. Depending on the outcome will be the confirmation if the person was right or wrong. So basically you won't be able to tell until it's to late after the damage is done. In a perfect world to avoid all of this never "assume" and ask questions even if you think you have the answers think before you speak don't talk in anger and if you can throw it off a bridge and can get over it, it's not worth fighting over it.

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Why does he drunk call me?

Am I the only one curious of why guys drunk call. It doesn't make sense to me since I don't drink like that and on top of that I'm like why can't you just say it sober! I did some googling and according to Psychology Today and their psychological studies say there's 5 reasons people drunk call... 1. Social lubricant 2. Entertainment 3. Coordination 4. Confession of Emotion or 5. Sexuality For me the drunk calls are always on an emotional type of thing with the "I'm sorry", or "how much I miss you", and "love you". It's all entertaining to me at first it strokes my ego. The liquor is a truth serum, specially for bad boys😈. It reveals so much in the moment. Usually by the next day, they call me again SOBER and I'm like "do you remember last night" and then the convo gets juicy because they usually don't.😏 Once I reveal their drunkin truth; they usually agree and some walls go down only for the moment.😒 Talk about "drunk in love" but can you do it when you're sober? Am I the only that feels this way? I'm over the drunk calls

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Topic of the Day: Relationships

Why is everyone single? There's so many beautiful people that are single. No one is perfect but a lot of us are darn near close to it but still single. Maybe it's because we are to vain to see the beauty in others... selfish, hurt, invisible? What is it, why does my generation have problems with commitment what's really distracting us. Like it's possible to be with people for an entire lifetime most people do it with themselves lol ... So forever should never be scary. FOREVER EVER EVER EVER!!!