F.R.I.E.N.D. - Z.O.N.E (pt.1)
Hi guys this would be my second entry:
Today it is all about friend zone.
Did you ever have those feelings when you and your friend got too close to each other and you have the strange feeling of imagining to have a relationship with them? Well that happened to my best friend and me. My best friend confessed to m two days ago that he could imagine to be in a relationship me. I was like MTV’s FRIENDZONE “omg are you serious”. But talk to him frankly and we still are friends. Sure it is weird but I still love him as a friend but from my side it is just friendship and period. Sam (it’s obvious not his proper name) is not my type at all. Although his body has the level of Channing Tatum in bodybuilding version; I am not into beards and bodybuilding guys. I like those Abercrombie and Fitch models handsome and fit. HOT!
But now in general the problem of friend zone.
If you haven't got an idea of how to react when your bf confesses to you here is my advice or rather how I faced it:
- be honest and tell the truth, how you feel about it maybe it’s mutual, but honesty builds the base for a serious conversation. It is fair since your bf is opening him-/herself to you about him/her feelings
-additionally respect the outcome; the worst case what actually could happen is to be dumbed but it is ok because not everyone reacts or has the same feeling as you do! That is why it’s very important to respect your friends answer and emotions.
LOVE is a complicated but also the best feeling in the world. If everything matches and harmonies you were successful but as life not everything is constant. It has deeps and highs as well.
oh shit it’s pretty late i am going to bed pt.2 is coming tomorrow ....
TO BE CONTINUED....
xxJ.Cha
