What can I do/change in my relationship with my best friend to help us be emotionally open with each other?
u got the king of cups!
this card represents mindfulness, being acutely aware of emotions, both yours and the people’s around you. if u and ur best friend aren’t on the best terms emotionally speaking, maybe there’s been some sort of miscommunication between u guys. or maybe the both of u haven’t been paying enough attention 2 each other’s emotions n feelings bc even if u think u have, u may not have been conveying ur feelings in a language ur friend speaks. for example, me n my sister have different ways of understanding the other is there for the other. she doesn’t like talking abt feelings in general, but i do. so when i don’t feel fine, she encourages me 2 talk abt it. but when she doesn’t feel fine, i kniw the best way 2 make her feel better is 2 distract her from whatever’s upsetting her
this isn’t the best of examples but basically, try 2 understand each other’s love language; and try to pay very close attention to their emotions: how do they react to this or that? and try to understand why.
BUT ofc im not saying 2 try n guess their feelings! that will only lead 2 more miscommunication. encouraging ur best friend (and also urself!) 2 talk abt ur (negative & also positive) feelings together should go hand in hand w the being mindful of their emotions part. u probably know this but still i wanna make sure: im NOT saying 2 guess their emotions, just 2 pay close attention 2 them!!! n talk it out w them when u have the opportunity, if u feel like u should
n b open 2 talking abt ur emotions w them as well! this is a two way street!
basically, the keywords for this card are: be very mindful of u guys’ emotions n love language, communicate ur feelings 2 each other/encourage that communication
i hope this helped you!! good luck!!! 💕
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