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[thinfatfit]

Things No One Will Tell Fat Girls

THIS IS JES BAKER'S BODY-LOVE PARTY, AND YOU'RE INVITED. Among the many Things No One Will Tell Fat Girls that you don't want to miss: ...

just finished this book and 10/10 recommend if you’re looking for a good bopo book

[therachelperspective]

BOOK | Landwhale: On Turning Insults Into Nicknames, Why Body Image is Hard, and How Diets Can Kiss My Ass by Jes Baker

This is the first book I picked up and actually finished in over a year.

I just need to sit with that statement for a moment.

🤔

The reality of this still baffles me. That I could not partake in something I thoroughly enjoy (reading a book) for over a year. At the start of the pandemic (early 2020), something in me just... broke, and I couldn’t do anything anymore – which is the sad reality of why I’ve hardly had any new content on The Rachel Perspective in a long time. But alas, something about Landwhale spoke to me. Jes Baker spoke to me.

One of my first book reviews on here was Jes Baker’s Things No One Will Tell Fat Girls back in 2016. It was also, I believe, my first body positivity piece of literature I ever read AND my post to date with the most likes/reblogs to its name. It was many things, but the important fact was that I loved it. It was a great book that solidified aspects of my own personal journey with my self-image, beyond what I had already achieved on my own. But what Things No one Will Tell Fat Girls did from a self-help and statistical aspect (it was, after all, subtitled as a “guide”), Landwhale instead approaches from the more cold-hearted truths of being a fat girl. Where her debut novel was chalk full of lists and ways to help yourself love your body, the sophomore novel delves into the reality that existing in this world – for everyone – is actually really f*cking hard.

At the beginning of Landwhale, Jes includes a trigger warning. For the whole book. While I fortunately did not really feel any triggered responses from the topics she discussed take heed of the trigger warning, I fully understand how a lot of the material could be unnerving. This time around, it wasn’t just another “I’m a fat girl, hear me roar” set of essays about the struggles every fat girl has come to experience time and time again. You know, those usual struggles with clothing/fashion, bullies, etc. Here, instead – and seriously, I applaud Jes so so much for this – she covers the mental health side of the struggles more in depth, like the self-deprecation, the problems that arise within the fat community itself, the doubts and fears when in a relationship (especially when your significant other is smaller in stature). Things No One Will Tell Fat Girls skimmed the surface of the basic troubles of a plus-size individual and her approaches to combating those issues; Landwhale, however, dove more deeply into that tough material. But honestly, I’m so glad she did this. It all needs discussing because, truthfully, so many people struggle with these things – myself included. And because has a background in mental health work, having been employed as a psychosocial rehabilitation specialist and is a credentialed peer support specialist and educator (in the state of Arizona)... well, needless to say, I trust what she says. Jes has proved time and time again that she not only lives the plus-size life and can speak from years of experience, she also is invested in helping others enough that she does this kind of work for a living. And maybe because I did feel like I related so much to Jes throughout Landwhale, it could be that I have some unrealized traumas that I never truly understood until now. Maybe the things people say around me (or to me) in relation to their bodies, to this day, still have a negative effect on my psyche despite any self-proclaimed positive, good-standing view towards my own body. Learning moment, y’all.

Although geared toward and obviously best suited for the fat community, Landwhale is still a great discussion for all of us living in our own bodies, just as it was with her first novel. Our bodies are ours and ours alone; we live for no one but ourselves. It is no one else’s place to discuss our bodies, nor dictate what the standards of beauty or health based upon them. Although, yes, many of the narratives are fat specific – not being able to partake in amusement park rides due to size constraints, equally the struggles of airplane travel, or medical professionals only trying to “cure” your obesity rather than the ailment you actually met with them for – there are still anecdotes that everyone could benefit from. Important conversations about capitalism, diet culture, fatphobia, even questions about what is considered “acceptable body alterations” in relation to body positivity.

What we must remember is this: “Let people own their own journey while remaining steadfast in yours.” We are all, after all, human.

[volup2]

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[the-final-sentence]

Now say it with me.

Jes Baker, from Things No One Will Tell Fat Girls: A Handbook for Unapologetic Living

[adderalldust]

Many of us are traumatized by diet culture. Some of us have experienced trauma that led us to becoming fat. Others have experienced trauma as a result of living in a world that hates fat people. And almost none of us are receiving treatment [for that trauma] that holds space for us to “just be” as fat people. Vulernability is hard, made harder by trauma, and made harder still by living in a world that tells you your trauma is deserved.

Jes Baker, Landwhale

[chubstr]

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[random-bookquotes]

Happiness is about finding what you love about yourself and sharing it. Happiness is about taking what you hate about yourself and learning to love it. Happiness is an internal sanctuary where you are enough just as you are, right now.

Jes Baker, Things No One Will Tell Fat Girls: A Handbook for Unapologetic Living

[mattmcgorrysourceit]

Matt on Instagram (Traduzione sotto):

“"Landwhale: On turning Insults Into Nicknames, Why Body Image Is Hard, and How Diets Can Kiss My Ass’ by Jes Baker ( @themilitantbaker ) # I greatly admire Jes’s vulnerability, and it made me reflect on my own expression of vulnerability in my writing and activism. I think this is the power of seeing someone speak their truth in such a candid way. It allows us to self-reflect and take stock of how we may be capable of going further and opening up more than we previously imagined that we possibly could. I seek to do this for other people in sharing my own struggles and messiness and always appreciate when people are willing to “go there.” I really enjoyed this book, not just as a look into the mind and life of a fierce Body Positive activist, but as a story that covers a great deal more ground, about relationships, family, trauma, and more, and all with great humor and wit.

# My Booklist: bit.ly/mcgreads #mcgreads”

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“Landwhale (balena di terra): come trasformare gli insulti in soprannomi, perché accettare l'immagine del proprio corpo è difficile e come le diete possono baciarmi il culo” di Jes Baker. Ammiro molto la vulnerabilità di Jes e mi ha fatto riflettere sull'espressione della mia stessa vulnerabilità in ciò che scrivo e nel mio attivismo. Penso che questo sia il potere di vedere qualcuno dire la propria verità in modo così candido. Ci permette di riflettere su noi stessi e di fare il punto su come potremmo essere capaci di andare oltre e aprirci di più di quanto avremmo pensato di poter fare in passato. Miro a fare questo per altre persone condividendo le mie lotte e i miei disastri e apprezzo sempre quando le persone sono disposte ad arrivare a quel punto. Mi è davvero piaciuto questo libro, non solo come uno sguardo nella mente e nella vita di una fiera attivista di Body positivity, ma come una storia che nasconde molto di più sulle relazioni, la famiglia, i traumi e molto altro e tutto con molto umorismo e molta intelligenza.“