#jonas takeover

[laioswife]

For today only! We have a takeover of Tommy and Jonas!

I have some stuff in the queue that will be cleared out throughout today as well! But those two will be able to help you unless y'all have questions about collages!

[laioswife]

Hey Jonas! Could I ask 1,3,4, 9, and 17 from before you were dating? (@toogayforthistoday)

Hey again Gabe! I would love to! I’m sorry for not getting to this sooner. I ended up falling asleep. lmao! @toogayforthistoday

Talk about the first time you and your f/o met. How was it like?

Depending on the “world,” we’ve technically met two/three/four separate times because of how everything works. The “actual” first time we met, we met when she came with her cousin to our summer swim over at the lake. I fell in love with her instantly. She was so different, yet as comforting as a sunset. The first of the “alternate” time I met her, we met at school after I was coming back to school after being hospitalized for PTSD after my father’s death, she fell in love with me instantly... In that same “alternate”, she had met me earlier after she was first coming back “into the world” after being hospitalized from PTSD after her accident and her father’s death. The third time, I, the same as the second times, met an alternate her... It did not go well because she had slight memories of the “ending” of the previous places she’s been. The fourth time, I from the second and third times merged with the first time to remeet her. She was just like how I remembered, but happier and our lives were so much happier. 

I’m sorry. I went into a bit of a ramble there. Haha. That was a bit of a loaded question for us. Haha.

Did it start off as a small crush for you, or did you quickly fall head over heels? How about vice versa?

Oops, I accidentally explained this in the last one but I’ll quickly review it. I fell in love with her first in the “first”, she with me, technically, in the “second”, but it could also be seen as mutual I guess. The “third”, she never fully fell in love with me so I fell head over heels first.

Was there a special moment between you guys that got you to realize you had feelings for them? Was it a deep conversation, spending more quality time with them or something else? How about vice versa?

Well, I’ll go with the “core” us for this one. We just had this moment of understanding each other without words. We were just together and intimately understood exactly how the other one felt. We realized that being with each other was as easy as breathing and being apart from each other was like living in a place where everything was scary and it felt like no one really understood. 

Before dating, did either of you ever have any embarrassing moments? (Examples: Socially awkward moments, almost accidentally revealing your feelings to them, being clumsy, etc.)

Oh definitely. When the “first me”, without the combined experiences, met her and wanted to ask her out... I uh... stood on my hands at the edge of a cliff above the local lake. I would blush every time she’d even glance my way. I was clumsy. When the experiences “combined”, we basically started dating. In the other “experiences”, she was the pentacle of grace.

How was it like once you’ve officially confessed each others’ feelings?

Depending on which of the ?four? times you want to know about.... One of the times was... tragic... to say the least. Two times were so soft and sweet. It was like being able to breathe for the first time. The other time... it was just me confessing my feelings...on my hands... at the edge of a cliff...atop of the local lake... hahaha.

Before Dating Self Ship Asks

[laioswife]

Since people are doing the individual collages! I will post Annalise and I’s as well. Above is mine and below is Annalise’s. I really love these and how they came out. 

[laioswife]

Oh WAIT! Since Thomas got to talk about his kids with Elspeth!!! I can talk about Jonah and Michelle!  (picrew creator  @ 03diga10 for the first two pictures of each. Then the picture of them together picrew here)

Our first son we had at around the age of 35! Annalise and I had trouble conceiving for years, but we were finally able to have Jonah! Jonah is our sweet baby boy. He is very quiet and he adores his mother and father. Jonah is a little bit of a crybaby. He enjoys arts and crafts, painting, and reading. 

About 2 years after Jonah, we have our crazy Michelle. She is the handful that needs at least 3 and a half adults watching her CONSTANTLY or she will be up in a tree causing issues and refusing to come down unless “Uncle Maggie” comes to get her down. She is rough and tumble child. She has so much energy and loves everything sporty and outside.

Here is a picture of them together! We had to stop Michelle from “bullying” her older brother to get a good picture. They really do adore each other, even if they seem to fight like cats and dogs. They are each other’s best friend, which is why they probably argue so much.

[laioswife]

Hi. I just wanted to post Annalise and I’s collage. None of them have very special meaning. It’s just our autumn aesthetic. Annalise and I love autumn. It’s really nice time of year and it starts to get cool again.

[laioswife]

15, 23 for the romantic f/o take over! - the-lonely-rose (🌹)

Hallo @the-lonely-rose! Danke!

Have any of your habits rubbed off on your Annalise? For example, have they adopted some of your speech patterns into their daily conversations, or perhaps you have a habit of moving your hands a certain way that they unknowingly have started to mimic?

Well, Annalise and I are pretty much opposite yet very similar. I think I have actually taken more habits from her than the other way around. Especially with trauma recovery and dealing with living with PTSD. Annalise has become a bit more introverted and a bit more of a “homebody” since we’ve been together though. Her taste in foods has started to meld with mine as well. The way she says certain words in German is definitely from me though.

What is something you and your Annalise can never seem to agree on? (For example: sweet food vs. spicy food, pineapple on pizza, what shows you get to record, etc.)

Lise and I agree on basically everything. I find it really hard to say no or just not agree with her after everything we’ve gone through to get to this point. Agreeing and love just comes as easy as breathing. I think the only thing we don’t “agree” with is just what we ourselves enjoy as hobbies. Not that we hate each other’s hobbies, Annalise is just more sporty and wants to go on jogs. I tend to prefer less “sporty” hobbies like photography. We come together though through music and hiking through nature. I guess Annalise is more Extroverted and I’m Introverted is a good way to also put it, but we just compromise because our personalities and understandings just complement each other. We grow and learn together. 

Romantic F/O Takeover Questions

[laioswife]

Hallo. Ich heiße Jonas. I'll be the last one to do the takeover starting today going into the birthday month. Hope all of you have a good time.