#judge less

[serenityquest]

[musings-for-the-masses]

often times I will express the perspective of someone else and ppl will get mad at me as if I am in agreement with that perspective

like, im not even playing devils advocate per-se im just quoting or paraphrasing what someone else believes for the purposes of commentary/discussion

and ppl will get instantly heated as if im embodying “the devil”

I don't believe I have to be loyal to one side or the other. I'm simply asking questions.

- Juror #11, 12 Angry Men

[midori-kim]

“Love more, judge less. People’s stories are infinitely complex.”

[luisramirezc]

Hug people who’s hurting

So, today a horrible thought crossed my mind. It was just like... seconds, but it happened. I didn’t do the thing actually, but it crossed my mind... “what if you just crossed the street without caring for cars to stop?”. And inmediatly it crossed my mind that game I’m waiting for months, and a second after that I felt so scared of my own mind; of thinking about that stuff. And I realized I found something to keep me back on track and snapped me out of that. I told that to a friend in hopes for them to make me feel better, but what I got was “How stupid you are; you don’t get to play with that stuff. So don’t ever talk about it again. You aren’t serious”. But I was. I was so serious, and that was the answer I got from someone I trusted to tell what happened.

If someone ever tells you something like this, just be empathic and hug them. Tell them you’re glad they didn’t actually go further. 

I know nobody’s gonna read this, but I just wanted to take it off my chest.

[ironmanstrength]

Killing them with Kindness - Part 2

OK Guys, so last time I posted a blog about kindness that talked about the “why” we should choose to respond with compassion versus the alternative. In my previous post, I promised you how to execute this kindness response proposition into real action.  If you are like me, talking about a big topic like this without giving me practical ideas of how to apply is like sitting down at the dinner…

Killing them with Kindness - Part 2

[icecreamfoxes]

Don’t punish your mistakes while in a creative environment

[fiestysassybrat]

[xxlying-from-y0u]