“We don’t fall in love: it rises through us the way that certain music does.”
JULIA COPUS; In Defence of Adultery
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“We don’t fall in love: it rises through us the way that certain music does.”
JULIA COPUS; In Defence of Adultery
Possibly my favourite contemporary poem, written by my favourite contemporary poet, Julia Copus.
This is from Copus’ award winning collection ‘The World’s Two Smallest Humans’ published in 2012. She is a really lovely woman to talk to and deserves so much more recognition✨
Noi non cediamo all’amore: è l’amore che sale in noi come certa musica, una sinfonia o una ballata ed è color seppia come il tè versato che risale lento attraverso i mille tunnel perfetti di una zolletta di zucchero posata accanto alla tazza. Sì, l’amore è così: proprio quando meno ne abbiamo bisogno quando meno ce l’aspettiamo una parte di noi vi affonda dentro per caso o per sbaglio e l’amore risale attraverso le nostre vene.
Julia Copus
The Back Seat of my Mother's Car
by Julia Copus
We left before I had time
to comfort you, to tell you that we nearly touched
hands in that vacuous half-dark. I wanted
to stem the burning waters running over me like tiny
rivers down my face and legs, but at the same time I was reaching out
for the slit in the window where the sky streamed in,
cold as ether, and I could see your fat mole-fingers grasping
the dusty August air. I pressed my face to the glass;
I was calling to you – Daddy! – as we screeched away into
the distance, my own hand tingling like an amputation.
You were mouthing something I still remember, the noiseless words
piercing me like that catgut shriek that flew up, furious as a sunset
pouring itself out against the sky. The ensuing silence
was the one clear thing I could decipher –
the roar of the engine drowning your voice,
with the cool slick glass between us.
With the cool slick glass between us,
the roar of the engine drowning, your voice
was the one clear thing I could decipher –
pouring itself out against the sky, the ensuing silence
piercing me like that catgut shriek that flew up, furious as a sunset.
You were mouthing something: I still remember the noiseless words,
the distance, my own hand tingling like an amputation.
I was calling to you, Daddy, as we screeched away into
the dusty August air. I pressed my face to the glass,
cold as ether, and I could see your fat mole-fingers grasping
for the slit in the window where the sky streamed in
rivers down my face and legs, but at the same time I was reaching out
to stem the burning waters running over me like tiny
hands in that vacuous half-dark. I wanted
to comfort you, to tell you that we nearly touched.
We left before I had time.
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Julia Copus, “The Back Seat of My Mother’s Car”
A poem by Julia Copus
Hymn to All the Men I’ll Never Love
My heart, sing praises to the men I’ll never love; from whom a night away’s just that — a night — and not a lifetime in the desert without food and water. It’s because of them that breakfasts can be eaten, Lord, appointments kept, and letters left to lie where they have fallen; men with whom a perfect evening may be nothing more than beer and cards outside beneath the lean-to where straight-talk and easy gestures leave dark nests of sparrows and the scent of bonfires in their wake; the sort of men whose smiles I can endure without surrendering my all to them; in whose unswerving disregard, let heaven rejoice, let the earth be glad.
Julia Copus
Noi non cediamo all’amore:
è l’amore che sale in noi
come certa musica,
una sinfonia o una ballata
ed è color seppia
come il tè versato che risale lento
attraverso i mille tunnel perfetti
di una zolletta di zucchero
posata accanto alla tazza.
Sì, l’amore è così:
proprio quando meno ne abbiamo bisogno
quando meno ce l’aspettiamo
una parte di noi vi affonda dentro
per caso o per sbaglio
e l’amore risale attraverso
le nostre vene
e si aggrappa all’interno delle camere del cuore.
Julia Copus