#just... not for me

[primulasystem]

My Feelings About Form Finding

I'm not just disinterested in form finding for myself, I am actively opposed to it. My inherent fluidity is an essential part of who I am and I need complete freedom to be anything I want to be at any point in time. I'm a metaphorical shapeshifter, I constantly evolve as a person - I don't think I'll ever be settled, no matter how old I am. I just know that if I decided on a form I would end up feeling stifled and suppressed by it, no matter how much I liked the animal. Of course there are things about myself that are consistent, or slow to change - I'd be lost if I didn't have any foundation at all. But the idea of form finding over and over again sounds like a hell of a lot of work, and I don't want to become stuck with one form out of a lack of desire to go searching again. At least with labels I can drop ones or switch them as I wish, with less work involved. And even in that case, I tend to lean towards broad umbrella terms to avoid being stifled by that too. I suppose when it comes down to it, an inability to settle precludes the possibility of finding a form at all, and is antithetical to the practice itself. So I let Solaris transform according to his preferences, and don't worry about form finding at all.

- 💙Blue

[another-fire-emblem-sideblog]

I remember when three houses first came out and I didn't play it right away (didn't have a switch) but I noticed everyone was REALLY horny for Seteth. And I didn't get it, but I thought "maybe once I played the game I'll get it" and then I did and I still don't

[caseythebunnyboy]

Hi, demiboy who would also make a perfect little omega here. I got into omegaverse before the egg cracked and stayed because men with feminine body types and the ability to become pregnant was really validating (for obvious reasons). I enjoy mpreg, but only if there's worldbuilding that sets it up (like omegaverse or the characters in question being magical/mythical creatures). If it's just a normal world and a man is suddenly pregnant, I'm just like ugh. It probably has to do with my autism. I get a little upset when people break universally understood rules (like speed limits or biology) so it just takes me out of the story.

yes yes i do understand people who find comfort in a/b/o mpreg! though my general disdain for male pregnancy when it comes to me being the one pregnant is like... the dysphoric aspect of it, along with the fact that i dont want kids, and that pregnancy absolutely terrifies me 😭 also dont worry i too get upset about certain things when it comes to writing stories, even though no one else seems to mind 🐇 in general i think mpreg is fine and cool, just not really my thing 🥲 both story wise and kink wise, but im okay with others liking it!

[gostaks]

I’ve been trying to articulate why the whole marie kondo thing rubs me the wrong way and I think it’s because for a lot of my life I’ve said ‘this thing brings me joy’ and got a resounding response of ‘well it shouldn’t’

Are you really sure you want to keep all those rocks? Shouldn’t you throw that shirt with holes in it away? Why are you keeping garbage in your room?

And when I say yes I want to keep those rocks and the shirt is comfortable so I’ll still wear it on weekends and that’s my can pyramid and it’s beautiful, I get at best skepticism and at worse constant pressure to just throw it out already because it can’t possibly actually bring you joy that’s silly

So like, being entreated to keep only things that bring me joy just brings to mind one of the many times someone else has decided which things didn’t bring me sufficient joy and took it upon themselves to konmari for me

[beevean]

I’m already seeing people disappointed that Carrey!Eggman doesn’t look like Eggman, and I 100% understand them, but... honestly, as soon as the plot got leaked, I already accepted that this will not be a Sonic movie. This will be an average kids movie whose main characters just so happen to share their names with the main characters of a popular videogame series.

Eggm- sorry, Robotnik, is not supposed to look like canon!Eggman, because this movie is barely trying to respect the original material and it’s pretty much doing its thing. So yeah, as his own original character, I don’t think Carreynik looks that bad. Plus I’m sure he’ll give his own unique spin to the character to make him charming.

Also, call it low standards, but at least Robotnik here doesn’t make my eyes bleed like Sonic. So that’s a win.

[oodlenoodleroodle]

I just saw one of those silly “schools in Finland are heaven” -videos on Facebook, and the little text in it said “everyone wants to be a teacher in Finland” and I lolled hard :P