so like, im thinking about going to the sept 20 show in chicago but i have no idea what the crowds going to be like :/ im a female fan & also a minor (and also intend on attending by myself) so.... i dont think it'll be too intense but? what do u think? ur an adult and also a cool female fan so i assume u have better judgement abt these things LOL
weLL, i think it really heavily depends on how you are in crowds; with how you worded this, i think you’re ok with them and if that’s the case, i think it’d be fine! from the show i went to, there were definitely more men than women BUT there were definitely plenty of women there, as well as quite a few parents with small kids (many of which were dressed up in bm esque costumes which is irrelevant but adorable).
i don’t think the small shows are intense in terms of moshing, though. i personally only go for a seat/the balcony because i do not at all even kind of like crowds or tight spaces, but if you’re fine with them i’d imagine you would be good.
not to go all mom on you, but just be aware of your surroundings and look out for yourself and i’d imagine you’ll be fine! everyone i talked to at the show was ridiculously kind and helpful, so there is that. you know your limits though, so if things get too intense, just move to the back or sides and keep an eye out for yourself! if you do go, have lots of fun!!
