#justwanttocuddle

[mamadanai]

Who Wants To Spend

Valentines Day watching movies, feeding our faces, having a pillow fight, Pretty much an over all sleepover... with possible cuddling? 👀👀

[insteadhere]

Sex expectations

I have ended up reflecting a lot lately and what it is about sex that makes me recoil from the idea.

One, I think I am bursting at the seams with messaging about sex. About how it’s supposed to be something that I’m supposed to be good at and how if I am not good at it I might never be able to have a relationship (talking about high stakes?) And it’s something that i have to ‘experiment with’ and ‘try out different things’ and ‘learn’ and ‘have to do with some socially acceptable level of frequency’ like, I have way too much of that in the rest of my life? Like I haven’t heard any of this language used regarding other activities I might enjoy with another person, and this is supposed to be a private intimate enjoying one another kind of thing?

Second, and this has to do primarily with my experiences having sex with men, which is the majority of my experience, but I can probably count on one hand the actual number of instances I enjoyed the whole process of sex? Most often, at what turns out to be the end of the whole shebang, I am faced with one of to scenarios:

1. the guy ejaculates and the immediately goes to the bathroom to clean up while I am just there, alone, in bed, not feeling done at all.

2. the guy ejaculates and then either plops over and falls asleep, or falls asleep on top of me? and then I’m just there, alone, in bed?

ultimately, however you toss it, I end up just feeling used for a thing. like what’s so exciting or enticing or pleasurable about that?

[l4wl3r]

Time keeps going by...

Idk if I should look for someone else because you don't believe a word I say even tho I was trying to protect you... Check who your "friends" are before you get fucked over all I got to say...

[supertenorjv]

😢

When you just need someone to hold you and the person you trust to do that tells you “no. Because it always leads to us hooking up and I don’t want to do that tonight.” Then scoots away from you while you just lay there about to cry.

[gayisthewayforme]

What is wrong with me? I mean, I’m nice, I’m sweet, and I would like to think that I am at least average looking.. Why can’t I get a girlfriend?

[lararaesorbet]

That face. Ili pika #ohmy #justwanttocuddle #teddybear #ilipika #cheeks

[getlifteddx]

Ugh these are the kind of nights I wish I had someone waiting for me in bed