You know what nobody talks about in Jab We Met? How Aditya goes through the heartbreak of losing the girl he loves to another man twice, both in the first half (his girlfriend) and the second half (geet) of the movie, but his character growth in the second half allows him to still remain content in love instead of ending it all like he did in the first half.
When his girlfriend in the first half of the movie gets married to someone else, Aditya blames her as the "problem" for "life dumping him". But in the second half, and the exact same situation yet again but with Geet now instead, we see how Geet's influence on him grows beyond his love for her. He is now a changed man not because he found someone else to love, but because he found a reason to love his life simply because someone like Geet crossed her paths with him.
"Main tujhe bohot acchi lagti hu na?"
"Bohot. Bohot zyada acchi lagti ho. Magar woh mera problem hai."
