This past Saturday evening I went to a holiday party and wore a dress for the first time. It felt so natural and freeing and I felt so much confidence that I actually gave a woman I met there my number. I’ve never done anything like that in my entire life before. Today I finally heard back from her. She just got out of a divorce so she’s not looking to date right now (and I understand exactly where she’s coming from), but said she would love to be friends. Which is honestly a win in my book. I messaged her back, but who knows if or how soon she’ll reply. But it’s fine either way. I’m just going to let go of expectations and let things unfold however they will. I did the important part—making the effort to put myself out there.









