How come we start depending on one person so much? We let them into our lives, make the most beautiful and exciting memories with them, and in the end we end up being hurt. Being disappointed. But still, we keep depending on that one person. Because we cannot let go. We cannot let go of all the precious memories we created and all the amazing adventures we went on.
Everything we do, everywhere we go, every song we listen to reminds us of them. We cannot stop thinking about them and all the lovely time we spent together. But is that really love? Can we say it is love, without knowing if the other person replys to it? Even though we know we would do everything for them, would they do it for us?
I used to be really upset being reminded of that feeling. That feeling that you get when something reminds you of a memory you created with someone you used to be very close to. I used to be mad and say that I don’t want to be reminded of it. I don’t want to be reminded of that stupid memory. But why stupid? I mean, it is a beautiful memory and just because I am not close to that person anymore does not mean it is not a good memory. It is a very very precious memory. You want to know why? Because in that very moment when I created that amazing memory with my friend, I was happy. I was happy and I felt welcomed and fulfilled. I felt complete. And that is the only thing that counts. That is exactly the feeling you should hold on to when you capture another reminder for that memory. Don’t be upset because that person hurt you. Be thankful that you were able to live happily in that very moment.