She became the ruler of a small court through marriage and violence.
She’s always wanted power and was willing to do anything to get it.
She married into it, in a court known for violence
Her husband was awful and that was fine because so is she, and then he thought he could be awful to her and that was absolutely not fine
She killed him. No hesitation, no regret, no secrets.
Her court respects violence and had no problem with her methods
She’s been in charger for a couple of centuries now
Kieran has been her second-in-command for almost her entire reign
He’s a good balance to her -- talking her down when needed, but also letting her be feral when the occasion calls for it. He’s also never hesitated to help her or to kill when needed.
She won’t consult him on matters that involve mortals or anyone from the mortal realm. All of his calm rational is out the window under that circumstance and they both know it. He’s not offended by her choice her, but he is still irritated by it.