Recent personal story time.
Preamble: New in person play partner. Very submissive. Inexperienced but eager. Is curious and wants to try erotic hypnosis but we didn't start there. Not for this session.
Not our first time meeting, but the first time we're doing Kink. I have to be super slow and super careful here. Lots of explanation. Lots of conversation about proper D/S, boundaries, expectations, safe words, etc. I do mention that my "ordinary" play talk is sometimes conversationally pseudo-hypnotic. She's all thumbs up. She has so much nervous energy that she's vibrating.
It's a good time. We both learn a lot about each other. Convo is great. We click. Vibe is good, if a bit nervous.
By the time we reach towards the end of our play session, she's about spent. We've slid more from D/S into something just comfortable and natural and my guards are down. Still going, still embraced, and I think she's just in a post orgasm haze. But then I notice... Her eyes are lidded. They are rolling around. When I gently lift them to check, they cross. She's only semi-coherent and just repeating what I whisper. Her whole body is shivering. I observe now, she's showing a whole lot of trance signs.
Ooops! Well fuck... So, maybe just subspace. Maybe a little accidental induction. This is our first big d/s session. Maybe overload? Maybe normal for her? Time to slowly stop, wake her up, make her safe. She comes around. She's giddy and tired. I apologize and I explain what happened. She had no idea. Never happened before. Totally new. But she likes it. A lot. She likes it but is still nervous. "I like it and I trust you..." 🥰 "It's a little scary but not scary with you..." Oh...
We discuss what happened. We talk about what she wants to happen next time. We talk then and then talk more about it over the next few days to make sure everything is okay. Things are okay.
So kinksters and friends, what's the moral of the story today? I'm not really sure. Can you be doing this for a long time and this still happens: apparently. Did I have a great session with a new play partner and want to brag: yes. Is this a somewhat cautionary tale to ensure that in a dominant role you are always paying VERY close attention to queues and signs: yes, probably. Should consent always be a fucking constant: YES. Did I fuck up: perhaps, you tell me. Am I looking forward to seeing her again: absolutely.
So ends the tale. Thoughts and questions always welcome. Have fun and play safe out there, folks.
