Kvothe Rejects Denna
Have people realized that Kvothe rejects Denna? Whenever she puts herself out there, he tells her no.
Here are some examples:
When the first meet, she invites him to come with her. He declines, leaving her for the University. Obviously, he doesn't ask her to come with him because he has nothing (he thinks) to offer her.
When he sees her the second time, he pretends he doesn't remember her name. She follows his lead and pretends the same.
She tells him to steal her. They spend the night talking and he makes no romantic move towards her. He doesn't kiss her, they don't make future plans. They never make future plans.
She asks him to lunch, she seems him with another woman (Fela) instead.
When she is high, she asks him to bathe with her and he (rightfully) rejects her. (Side not here, he absolutely did the right thing as she was not in her right mind but she probably remembers this encounter and easily could be like, even when I'm throwing myself at him, he rejects me.)
She buys him a lute that is worth a small fortune when she has previously stated she has been in poverty and Kvothe doesn't make a move.
Denna also tells Kvothe he doesn’t push her, after telling him he can put his arm around her, which can easily be interpreted as her wanting him to make a more forward move.
She tells him, “yes,” to his unasked question, ready for it to be anything. And he simply asks her to move over a bit.
And yes, she is a con artist or a courtesan, so she needs to spend time with other men. But instead of trying to make a relationship work, Kvothe does nothing to move their relationship in a romantic direction. He is too cautious.
His motivations make sense of course, he is worried about losing her, but their relationship is stuck from developing to a romantic relationship or even a deeper friendship because Kvothe does not communicate his feelings to Denna and rejects the ones she shares with him.
So the lack of romantic development in their relationship is because of Kvothe. It is not Denna leading Kvothe on, Kvothe is not taking the opportunities she gives him.

















