I read somewhere recently that when Alexander died, his half-sister Thessalonike was already 21 and that was considered a really late age to get married for greek women. Did Alexander have any groom for her in mind before he died? Did he ever try to play at marriage politics using any of his other siblings? I know he married Hephaestion to his own wife's sister so that their children could be cousins so why didn't he marry Hephaestion with Thessalonike?
Thessalonike’s age is tough to pinpoint as we have a “lower end” and “higher end” chronology for her, but in any case, even on the low end, she was still well past the normal age of marriage.
I’ve written elsewhere, as has Beth Carney, on the sisters and their political status. Go here:
“Alexander and His Sisters”
Post with Beth Carney’s article in reply to a similar question:
Hi Dr. Reames :) I was wondering, is there any reason Alexander didn't arrange marriages for his sisters? I know of his attempt to marry Cyn
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I will quickly address the question of Thessaloniki and Hephaistion, as that’s not a part of any of the above, except tangentially.
Remember that marriage for royals is ALWAYS a political matter. Even if Alexander gave his new wife’s sister to Hephaistion so their children would be cousins, that was still part of a larger political move: to marry Greco-Macedonian men to Persian women to form new bonds in Alexander’s emerging Maceo-Persian empire. So Hephaistion’s marriage was part of that, not just a cute marriage tie with Alexander.
There was no reason for Alexander to give Hephaistion one of his own sisters. Hephaistion actually makes that same point in Dancing with the Lion when Alexander quasi-suggests the idea of him marrying Kleopatra: that Philip (still alive then) has no (political) reason to give him a royal princess.
Philip’s (historical) decision to marry Kleopatra to Alexander of Epiros was to offset any perceived insult to that same Alexander’s sister, Olympias. When Philip married his eldest daughter Kynnane to Amyntas, his nephew, it was presumably to keep Amyntas loyal as a back-up Argead when Philip went to Asia, because Alexander was (possibly) in self-imposed exile. In the novels, that’s when their marriage is announced, but in history, we’re not 100% sure. Yet the timing makes it highly possible Alexander wasn’t at court when Amyntas and Kynnane married.
There’s no political reason for Alexander to marry Hephaistion to one of his sisters, especially the one who’s not a widow and is, therefore, prime marriage material. Had Alexander lived, Thessaloniki would likely have remained unmarried for several more years (as, in fact, she did, albeit for other reasons). Alexander already had his marriage tie between himself and Hephaistion with Statiera the younger and Drypetis.
Btw, this issue is going to arise/come back in Dancing with the Lion, if I get to continue writing the series. I won’t say how (that’s a spoiler), I simply note that it will.

















