#lady-yvesa

[theflyingghost]

lady-yvesa - why are you worried? What I there to be worried about?

[celestial-fury]

I love genderbends! Just like you it's a safe space for me to explore genders. I'm actually demigirl and find gender very confusing. I've tried to present more masculine irl but I got a lot of negative comments and insults. Genderbends really help me do that safely and that's awesome. It's also an interesting view on a character: what changes and what doesn't in their personality? Ex: What strengths does Korra draw from being a woman? It's so much fun to explore.

yeah. I want to present more masculine sometimes but it’s really hard to because of money and how many people might say how “fake” i am I guess. it sucks but one day i’ll have the money and confidence to do it.

i really wish genderbends had a better label, lol. Trans headcanons are a better way of saying it but trans headcanons aren’t a good umbrella term for everything that I want to be explored. then again, trans headcanons don’t have to include dysphoria (but the majority of them are! and that is kind of reinforcing that gender presentation stereotype as well)

[theflyingghost]

lady-yvesa - on mobile so can’t properly reply properly. I kinda have on and off feelings of guilt like today we had sex and didn’t feel AS guilty. Though something's happened today that has made be feel so incredibly guilty so I think the guilty feeling might have been taken over by the fear of losin him.

[theflyingghost]

lady-yvesa replied to your post “lady-yvesa replied to your post “Okay so I think it went okay. I’m not...”

Awesome!! It's always a nice feeling when you realize things are easier than expected. Also kudos to your awesome brothers!

He is awesome. He’s totally going out of his way!!

[theflyingghost]

lady-yvesa replied to your post “Okay so I think it went okay. I’m not sure but I’ve sorted a lot of it...”

A day where I know what I'm doing is always a good day. Yay for you o/

Thank you bby!! Basically I found out more about the requirements and it’s a lot easier than I expected. I have two forms to get filled in for references. One from my youth worker and the other from my old school but my brother is willing to get it for me and I feel so grateful towards him bc I know he gets very anxious. Then the attendance I’ll just bring a few of my best reports with my attendance on and that’ll be that. GCSEs I can prove with certificates. DBS (basically criminal check) is fine bc I have never gotten caught for criminal activity B) and i’ve been to the welcome event :) !!

[rebeltoddler]

lady-yvesa replied to your post “lady-yvesa replied to your post “can anyone link me to that post...”

I'm INFP btw, what's yours?

ENFP is my new one. my old one is still on this blog. 

[rebeltoddler]

lady-yvesa replied to your post “can anyone link me to that post where you can do the quizes to find...”

I don't know about the post but if you're talking about myers-briggs personality types (like INFP, ENTJ) here is a good site: http://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test

thank you bby!! <3

[rebeltoddler]

lady-yvesa replied to your post “okay well i got measurement for an engagement ring am moving in with...”

You're getting engaged ? (hey btw, haven't been here for a while. Hope I'm not being inappropriate)

Nope!! Basically I’ve been dating this guy for a month and he’s already talking about weddings and shit and I’m like O.O and then for 2 hrs him and his 7 yr old niece kept talking about he and I getting married and planning the wedding and that made me uncomfortable but I kept telling myself, it’s just a joke but then we were passing this jewellery shop and he’s like “let’s get our ring sizes measured” and im like “um.. okay” and we measured it and like why this??